Your imagination, and especially online role-playing is a different animal from any actual in-person activity. QUESTION: I love to role-play with guys when we bate together on cam. Love older men, hairy men, their depth,…
“That’s my fantasy! Doesn’t it sound hot?” QUESTION: I’ve got these two great bate buddies, and they both love doing it with me. But so far, they won’t do a 3-way with all 3 of…
Consider whether anyone or you yourself are harmed or beset by guilt about it. QUESTION: I have really hot fantasies, which are nothing truly violent, though I don’t think they’re entirely legal. For sure, it’s…
QUESTION: Love to bate on cam with my Phallic Brothers, as you call us! Really nice how many guys tell me they love my penis, how beautiful it is! It’s not huge, only it has…
For many people the “physical exam” by a doctor is a loaded erotic scenario. QUESTION: At my yearly physical, with my trousers down on the table, I got an erection. The rather attractive doc said…
QUESTION: My older friend and I (he’s early 50s, I’m just 22) like to role play as daddy and son. We’re not really related. This involves tighty-whities and dark dress socks. He catches me jerking-off,…
QUESTION: Is it wrong to fantasize about something that could be immoral, or even illegal while I masturbate? Some of those things just turn me on so intensely, man, like nothing else!
RESPONSE: Many people assume that fantasizing is what masturbation is all about. Of course, creative self-pleasure has many other major delicious facets. You can make a case for the fact that watching and listening to porn is a form of media-assisted fantasy, because you use the images that arouse you to stimulate your pleasure, and yet it remains vicarious. It is not what is actually happening here and now, though your sensations are real. But live-action porn did happen somewhere at some time and was recorded for an audience.
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