There is no magic fix […] but there are some things you can do. QUESTION: I’d like to shoot farther and shoot much bigger loads when I do. How? RESPONSE: This is a common concern…
“Mindfulness is about nothing more than intense alertness, being really present in the moment where you are and in your own body. Keeping focus on yourself.” QUESTION: You sometimes say that using a lot of…
“My boyfriend has trouble getting off with me, but has no trouble staying hard and blowing his wad when our bate buddies are involved…” QUESTION: My boyfriend and I love to bate together, as…
“Some men consider the tongue as a sort of “upper penis” for it is extremely sensitive!” QUESTION: I’ve got some great bate buddies, which is a huge blessing in my life! But unless they will…
“I’m not sure we completely control anything, but we can develop greater skill at navigating our experience!” QUESTION: In the past, when I was with someone sexually, I got so excited it was hard not…
“The experimenting that I was conducting […] was quite interesting and fun as hell!” My Solo-sexuality, Edibles, and The Art of Gooning Formerly, Jaxz Masturbando (Jaxz) now under the title Statik Vibez. I have taken…
Get Hip While You Unzip (Learn The Bator Lingo) When you start a new job, take up a new hobby, or even begin hanging out with a new group of friends, there is often a…
“I still feel some guilt and shame after I come…” QUESTION: I still feel some guilt and shame after I come. Even though I know better—I should not feel this. It’s not during the bate…
I can hardly squeeze out a drop! How can I make more? QUESTION: Some of my online bate buds (these days they are all online!) make loads of precum, like it pours out! I can…
It’s been over a year since I ejaculated… QUESTION: I’m 31 now, and a few years back, under your influence I got into edging and what you call semen retention. I used to think I…
Please explain the (Solo) Sex Magick thing… QUESTION: Your protégé Dragon Puppy often talks about semen retention and Sex Magick. Can you please explain in simple terms just how this stuff works? RESPONSE: It’s my…
I’m still struggling with the urge to ejaculate after maybe just 10 or 15 minutes of stroking, at most. QUESTION: I’m still struggling with the urge to ejaculate after maybe just 10 or 15 minutes…
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