My suggestion to epic semen-retention athletes is that it probably is a good idea to ejaculate sometimes, maybe a couple of times a month, or at least every few months. QUESTION: Hi, Bruce. My son…

QUESTION: I cum way too easily, way too quickly. It’s what I guess you call “premature ejaculation,” because I cum long before I really want to. I want the pleasure to last and last, but…

QUESTION: After prostate surgery, I’m lucky. I don’t ejaculate, though I sometimes ooze a little. I do have great erections and have wonderful orgasms, though. I’m 72 and in pretty good shape, so I wonder……

QUESTION: In the kitchen, I did that thing with a ripe peach that I saw a young dude do in a movie. It really worked, only my father tapped me on the shoulder from behind just as I was coming inside that juicy piece of fruit. He only grinned and said, “Be sure to clean up the mess, Junior.” See, I moved back home after school, because my job is fast food at night and both my folks work. Usually I’m home alone afternoons, but dad came home on a break from his job. I’m so embarrassed, I might have to move out! Help!

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QUESTION: How can I give myself small ejaculations or semen releases without actually orgasming?

RESPONSE: Among the endless nuances of male masturbatory excellence are the refinements of what guys call “edging,” dry orgasms, or continuous orgasmic states. Edging generally means spending a lot of time highly aroused, close to orgasm, but not quite going over the edge into ejaculation—at least not until you’re ready to surrender and go over that irreversible Niagara Falls of oblivion.