There are no absolutes, no rules in male masturbation, except according to me: “Never hurt yourself, or hurt anyone else.” QUESTION: I know you say it’s always good to stroke with lube, and reasons why….

Generally, as a rule of thumb (+ other thumb, all fingers, and both rosy palms!), the more lube the better. QUESTION: I used to love Albolene for jerking off, but you converted me to coconut…

QUESTION: I am a physician, an M.D. in my 30s who has long been a fan of your teachings. I work in an Emergency Room, which is very stressful and the hours long. I’m single,…

There are countless lubes out there — and, of course, the option of none at all — to bring your bate from fun to fantastic. I discovered coconut oil as a bate aid through a friend…