Energy and the way to use it to manifest our desires have been on the rise as of late. As the first law of thermodynamics states: energy within us since energy cannot be created or…

QUESTION: My penis really is my God, no apologies or shame about this! I liked your response about penis worship, but seriously, when I masturbate, the better it feels, the closer I am to God….

One of our deepest thinkers on the power of masturbation and members of Bateworld.com writes here on why masturbation is so important during our Covid-19 isolation measures.  M.B. Timothy, or Saboteur on BW, is a…

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QUESTION: I love BateWorld! The whole thing is just totally magical to me, a really important part of my life as a young man, and I mostly masturbate here, not to porn. Only I’ve got…

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“If you don’t use it, you’ll lose it.”

QUESTION I am 43 and have been single for some time. I think my cock is getting smaller cause I only have a wank about once a week and cum quite quick when wanking, also I don’t get a proper hard on when wanking. Any advice on getting a bigger harder cock would be great. Many thanks.

RESPONSE: In fact, there is some truth to “If you don’t use it, you lose it.” With less use, meaning not masturbating often, or longer sessions, your penis can definitely seem smaller, and may actually lose size. I’ve encountered several men who went through prolonged periods with little or no sexual activity following a loss, an illness, or a traumatic breakup, who felt that when they resumed sexual activity, their penis was permanently smaller.

Not a person born so far has ever gotten here without a cock being involved. It’s a fact of life. The hard penis is a distinctive feature of the male of the species, a handy…