If you can calm your mind somewhat, learn to relax into it, that will help. QUESTION: I’ve been in lockdown with some buddies, who are roomies from school. We mostly get along, which is great….

If he’s really such a good friend, hopefully he can understand your preference. QUESTION: My best friend since high school and I still love to bate together. We have evenings of watching porn together and…

When I told my friend, “Brett,” that I might be writing a personal story for Bateworld for International Bi Visibility Day (celebrated around the world on September 23rd each year), he wrote, “Well in my…

Straightforward communication is key here! QUESTION: There’s this bate buddy I really like otherwise, except whenever we do mutual, he makes me come too quickly. That’s easy for him because my penis is really sensitive…

Bators often refer to and greet each other as brothers. They form, in a very real sense, a brotherhood founded on the practice and art of masturbation. Online communities like bateworld provide the common bator a safe and open environment where they can explore, talk about, and share their fondness for masturbation with like minded men. In addition to the camaraderie and reassurance, many men find it more exciting to bate with other men.

I’m sure he watches because it excites him, and he’s secretly stroking too. At the very least, it probably gives him an erection also. QUESTION: I share a dorm room at a Christian college, and…

I get questions sometimes from other Bateworld members asking for tips on how to meet bate buddies. While there’s no magic formula, I thought I’d share from my own experiences hoping it might spark some…

…open homophobia and secret homoerotic sharing among recruits and military professionals has been used to reinforce loyalty, obedience, and the willingness to go to extremes to protect your comrades or overcome enemy forces. QUESTION: I’m…

Often you might find men of the community come and go and come back again. One can never really pinpoint the reasoning, and maybe they don’t know either, perhaps they just needed a break. One day you meet a cool bator, chat, bate, connect, and the next day his profile is gone. Did he get cold feet? Does he feel ashamed? They are all valid questions that deserve some answering and elaborating.

The best approach may be to tell him about yourself, in terms of some of the things that turn you on, without getting too specific… QUESTION: My best friend and I jacked off together ever…

Mutual masturbation between guys can be enjoyed a lot of different ways.

This friend and I are both straight, but we like to watch porn together. Of course, we both end up jacking off, only he looks at me a lot. I can tell he wants to touch me, and who knows? Maybe more. How can I tell him No?