QUESTION: I’ve heard about dopamine and this other “feel good” stuff in the brain, which increases while I masturbate. I do use some porn and sometimes bate online with guys. But whenever I come, pretty…
“Edging Skills Are Not Easy For Me!” QUESTION: I’m working hard and practicing to become better at edging, even to masturbate mindfully. But I still ejaculate too easily, too soon, mainly because it just feels…
Neuroplasticity makes it possible to weave new nerve pathways into your nervous system and brain. QUESTION: You sometimes use long, fancy words, Bruce! Can you tell me in simple, clear terms what “neuroplasticity” really means?…
Erotic, Mindful, and Out-of-Body Bate Without the Use of Drugs QUESTION: You have a video called “The Psychedelic Penis” on your site, and it’s great! Really trippy effects! I’ve also seen that legal research is…
“I’m not sure we completely control anything, but we can develop greater skill at navigating our experience!” QUESTION: In the past, when I was with someone sexually, I got so excited it was hard not…
There is nothing morally wrong with porn, so long as no one is harmed by its production… QUESTION: Hey, Bate Master Bruce! Hail Penis! I’m totally addicted! I always bate to porn, but you sometimes…
Self confidence leads to sexual confidence and vice-versa! During this time of COVID-19, physical distancing, staying home, etc. we’re all scrambling to stay alert, informed, keep busy, stay working, helping in ways we can to…
…Return more attention to yourself, or to real-life masturbation buddies, either online or in person. QUESTION: I’m totally addicted to porn, and I can’t masturbate without it. I’m 27-years-old, and I can hardly get a…
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QUESTION: I’m 27 years old in the military, and this is really embarrassing. I guess you call it premature ejaculation. I’m ashamed to admit it. Really cramps my style. My penis is so incredibly sensitive, I just cum way too fast. With anyone else, or alone, either way. I can’t even edge at all. HELP ME!
RESPONSE: There’s nothing to be ashamed of here. You’re brave to speak out honestly on this. It’s a far more common issue for men than you might imagine. Also, there is the opposite issue, of guys who get hard and enjoy stimulation but have a difficult time getting to the orgasm. Your extreme sensitivity, I totally understand, because I was something like that myself until my early 40s, when I discovered what I call Mindful Masturbation. I’m still extremely sensitive, but I’ve learned to make ejaculation a choice. I learned to enjoy intense pure penis pleasure for as long and I want to stay in that glorious place indefinitely.
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