Bi Birthday Bate
When my friend “Danny” (see previous blog stories in my BateWorld profile, Doggyboner) had a birthday coming up recently, I offered to take him to a naked drum circle at a local family nudist resort…
Ask The Batemater: Masturbation, Vivid Dreams, and a Novel Series
Masturbation, Vivid Dreams, and a Novel Series QUESTION: In one blog, Bruce, you talked about reading and about characters in books that masturbate. Can you tell a little about the ones in your own books…
Ask The Batemaster: Masturbation In Literature
“What Gives About the Bate in Books?” QUESTION: Maybe I’m weird, but I still love to read fiction, more than I watch TV or films. But most guys in books don’t seem to masturbate, at…
Ask The Batemaster: How To Avoid Body-Shaming
“It never helps to compare yourself with others, especially in the department of appearance […] This is an extremely common trap the ego falls into.” QUESTION: Sites like Facebook, gay men’s pages, and a lot…
Bisexual Guy Does Healthy Friction
Bisexual BateWorld Member and Author Stefan Jax (Doggyboner) Experiences Healthy Friction For The First Time BateWorld and The Bator Blog would like to preface this article by wishing everyone a happy Bi Pride Month and…
Why Bate Dates Are The Best Dates
Before becoming a dedicated BateWorld member, I wasn’t aware that guys all over the world were having “bate dates.” I’m so grateful I learned, as bate dates are now by far my favorite kind of…
Ask The Batemaster: Kissing Guys And Sex With Women
“I love to kiss guys while we bate together, but I also like sex with women sometimes…..what is this?” QUESTION: I love to kiss guys while we bate together, and while we bate each other’s…
What Does Toxic Masculinity Look Like?
Toxic Masculinity Part II: The Man Box So, what does toxic masculinity look like? Last month I started this series off with Part I discussing what Toxic Masculinity is and will continue in Part II…
Bisexual Awareness Week: Finding Your Tribe
Our bisexual longtime friend, ‘Danny,’ came over for dinner the other night. With COVID, we eat safely outside in our screened-in porch. Since it’s S FL my friend asked if we should dress for heat….
Cultivating Your Solo Sex Powers And Never Again Settling For Mediocre Sex
The process of unlearning the shame in masturbation can be daunting, but the rewards are glamorous. His apartment was spacious with touches of rustic modern flair that matched his woodsy urban aesthetic. His apartment felt…
Bisexual Fun On Bateworld
My wife and I recently visited friends and family out of state for the holidays. While it’s great to see everyone, I’m an introvert and my wife will typically give me a day alone to…
Biaffectional Bicurious
(Note: This is another true story about bisexuality and the wins, and sometimes messiness, of navigating attractions and emotions in our own lives and in our friendships and marriages.) One day, “Gavin,” (not his real…
