How To Explain That You’re Not Into Anal
Hey Bators, FROTOLOGIST here. While I was working on the article, “When Did You Discover You Were a Bator?” I created a poll on BateWorld to spur comments from BW members to use in the…
How To Find A Bate Buddy And Make A Connection
Navigating BateWorld and making those bate connections (on or off the site) The number one question I continue to hear from guys is “how do I find a bate buddy?”. If that’s you, then this…
Ask The Batemaster: Masturbation Shame Still Gets Me
QUESTION: I’ve read what you say about increasing pure penis pleasure in quantity and quality to gradually “burn away” masturbation shame and guilt. Your teachings have helped me increase the good part a lot, but…
The Great BateWorld BateOff! Season 2
BateWorld Celebrates Masturbation Month with Its Second Annual, The Great BateWorld BateOff! BateWorld.com, the premier online masturbation community for gay, bisexual, and straight men, is celebrating May’s Masturbation Month with their second annual The Great…
Waiting For My New Bate Bud To Arrive, Part 2
“Right when I start the porn, he starts to take his clothes off already.” You’ve all been waiting with pitched tents to hear what happened next after Part 1 of Waiting For My New Bate…
Waiting For My New Bate Bud To Arrive
It’s 1am. I’m waiting on my porch for a guy to come over to bate with me for the first time. He’s been coming into the bar I work at a lot lately. His friends…
Make Your Penis Your Valentine!
Masturbation Is Best When We Practice Self-pleasure as Self-love. Here is how you can spend Valentine’s Day with your penis. Make your own penis your Beloved Valentine! This does not mean you should not have…
Body Image and Representation in Bator Media
Body image issues are an important topic and something I am particularly vocal about. Some readers may remember my article All Sizes Are Good Sizes: Celebrating Dick Diversity and Overcoming Societal Expectations. If you haven’t…
Why Bate Dates Are The Best Dates
Before becoming a dedicated BateWorld member, I wasn’t aware that guys all over the world were having “bate dates.” I’m so grateful I learned, as bate dates are now by far my favorite kind of…
How To Negotiate Being A Bator In Love
“Honey… I’m a masturbator.” A relationship is important. It demands your respect. Futures together are worth it. Pasts spent together are to be cherished. Your relationship to yourself is just as sacred though. Your solosexuality…
Passing The Hours: Masturbation In Isolation
One of our deepest thinkers on the power of masturbation and members of Bateworld.com writes here on why masturbation is so important during our Covid-19 isolation measures. M.B. Timothy, or Saboteur on BW, is a…
Meeting Bate Buddies
I get questions sometimes from other Bateworld members asking for tips on how to meet bate buddies. While there’s no magic formula, I thought I’d share from my own experiences hoping it might spark some…
