Introduction to Lingam Crystal Energy Massage We have all had our fair share of massages to relax. Massages are great to reduce stress, feel relaxed, have less tension and yes, sometimes a “happy ending” is…
In any significant relationship it’s best to always be honest, if possible. QUESTION: Sometimes I use my phone to record myself stroking one out, especially when I’m parked in my car. The other day my…
QUESTION: I’ve recently finished reading “The Secret of the Golden Phallus,” and it changed my life. Now, I feel fully empowered to make my penis the center of my life, and to shamelessly enjoy its…
You’ve probably bated in every space you could think imaginable. Your room, in bed, in a chair, on the floor, on the couch, in the bathroom, on the toilet, in the tub, in the shower,…
(Note: This is another true story about bisexuality and the wins, and sometimes messiness, of navigating attractions and emotions in our own lives and in our friendships and marriages.) One day, “Gavin,” (not his real…
“It’s nice to think that age doesn’t matter in the supportive realm of Phallic Brotherhood…” QUESTION: Cute young guys get a lot of attention for their looks, but they often lack finesse and style. As…
“You’re fortunate if your wife truly accepts your need for some private time to masturbate online.” QUESTION: I’m a young father of 3 kids under age 7. My wife and I still have sex (when…
Straightforward communication is key here! QUESTION: There’s this bate buddy I really like otherwise, except whenever we do mutual, he makes me come too quickly. That’s easy for him because my penis is really sensitive…
On the cusp of releasing his second book about life as a solosexual, Jason Amstrong takes a trip down memory lane to a post he wrote on The Bator Blog years in 2016. Once upon…
[REPUBLISH] This essay was originally published in two parts in September 2016 and now republished June 2019 with additional information and facts. Life After “The Little Death” We are taught that as men we build to…
Bators often refer to and greet each other as brothers. They form, in a very real sense, a brotherhood founded on the practice and art of masturbation. Online communities like bateworld provide the common bator a safe and open environment where they can explore, talk about, and share their fondness for masturbation with like minded men. In addition to the camaraderie and reassurance, many men find it more exciting to bate with other men.
Happy International MAYsturbation Month! April showers bring May flowers and also engorged penis’ celebrating International Maysturbation Month, an entire month dedicated to all that we’re about: Masturbation. You know, that mechanical arm gesture simulating self-pleasure,…