“You’re a virgin who just masturbates” (Yes, that is a play on the famous line from Clueless by our beloved Brittany Murphy. RIP.) QUESTION: I know what really turns me on, so I know I’m…
“I’m not sure we completely control anything, but we can develop greater skill at navigating our experience!” QUESTION: In the past, when I was with someone sexually, I got so excited it was hard not…
More Bator Terms (This Time ‘Items’ You Should Own) For Your Bate Arsenal If you’re new to the bator community, there will no doubt be some unfamiliar terms that pop up while you’re making all…
There are no absolutes, no rules in male masturbation, except according to me: “Never hurt yourself, or hurt anyone else.” QUESTION: I know you say it’s always good to stroke with lube, and reasons why….
“The experimenting that I was conducting […] was quite interesting and fun as hell!” My Solo-sexuality, Edibles, and The Art of Gooning Formerly, Jaxz Masturbando (Jaxz) now under the title Statik Vibez. I have taken…
“…You have evidently given yourself permission to enjoy pleasuring yourself, which is great, in itself!” QUESTION: I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a…
If this man is truly your best friend, his happiness must be at least as important as your own. QUESTION: My best friend and I love to masturbate together, and we do this a…
Get Hip While You Unzip (Learn The Bator Lingo) When you start a new job, take up a new hobby, or even begin hanging out with a new group of friends, there is often a…
“There is absolutely nothing wrong with being asexual, if that is truly what is going on with you.” QUESTION: Am I asexual? I only masturbate once every week or two, and sex is not…
Bisexual BateWorld Member and Author Stefan Jax (Doggyboner) Experiences Healthy Friction For The First Time BateWorld and The Bator Blog would like to preface this article by wishing everyone a happy Bi Pride Month and…
Actual, psychologically healthy self-love is a quality many enthusiastic masturbators manifest. QUESTION: Bruce, you often talk about self-pleasure as a form of loving yourself. Isn’t loving yourself just selfishness? I mean, at the expense of…
Word choices matter—sort of! QUESTION: I have to tell you, I agree with you, Bruce: the word PENIS seems a lot more erotic and accurate than all the other slang, like “prick” or “cock.”…
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