“…You are well on your way to liberation from such guilt and shame simply by being aware of it.” QUESTION: My family is not religious or conservative. But I still feel some guilt or shame…
“The idea that masturbation is anti-social […] is just part of outdated anti-masturbation campaigns that linger from the last few centuries.” QUESTION: I do it with bate buds and in groups! To me, bating is…
“You’re a virgin who just masturbates” (Yes, that is a play on the famous line from Clueless by our beloved Brittany Murphy. RIP.) QUESTION: I know what really turns me on, so I know I’m…
More Bator Terms (This Time ‘Items’ You Should Own) For Your Bate Arsenal If you’re new to the bator community, there will no doubt be some unfamiliar terms that pop up while you’re making all…
Get Hip While You Unzip (Learn The Bator Lingo) When you start a new job, take up a new hobby, or even begin hanging out with a new group of friends, there is often a…
Actual, psychologically healthy self-love is a quality many enthusiastic masturbators manifest. QUESTION: Bruce, you often talk about self-pleasure as a form of loving yourself. Isn’t loving yourself just selfishness? I mean, at the expense of…
Word choices matter—sort of! QUESTION: I have to tell you, I agree with you, Bruce: the word PENIS seems a lot more erotic and accurate than all the other slang, like “prick” or “cock.”…
The tables have turned in this exclusive interview with BateWorld members wildhorse100 and StrokingtheSoul Not too long ago, writer Jason Armstrong (wildhorse100 on BateWorld) was interviewed by writer Anthony Ragonese (StrokingtheSoul on BateWorld). You can…
For any of you who haven’t yet explored getting verbal, let’s see if I can get you started. If you look through the most popular videos posted by users on BateWorld over the years, what…
“It is remarkable how complex the brain is! The brain can track several major activities at once. Only be careful and sensible.” QUESTION: I drive cross-country a lot. During these long road trips, I love…
“They say it’s not real sex, that it’s only for losers…” QUESTION: My buddies at work and in the hood, all act weird because I’m pretty open and proud about how much I love the…
“We do “fishing” weekends together at a rented cabin. If our families only knew, it could be a disaster, I guess! But is this strange? How strange is it?” QUESTION: In college, my dorm roomie…
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