There are no absolutes, no rules in male masturbation, except according to me: “Never hurt yourself, or hurt anyone else.” QUESTION: I know you say it’s always good to stroke with lube, and reasons why….
“…You have evidently given yourself permission to enjoy pleasuring yourself, which is great, in itself!” QUESTION: I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a…
If this man is truly your best friend, his happiness must be at least as important as your own. QUESTION: My best friend and I love to masturbate together, and we do this a…
Actual, psychologically healthy self-love is a quality many enthusiastic masturbators manifest. QUESTION: Bruce, you often talk about self-pleasure as a form of loving yourself. Isn’t loving yourself just selfishness? I mean, at the expense of…
Word choices matter—sort of! QUESTION: I have to tell you, I agree with you, Bruce: the word PENIS seems a lot more erotic and accurate than all the other slang, like “prick” or “cock.”…
I often say that in reality, human males do not neatly fit into a handful of labels, as far as our sexuality is concerned. QUESTION: I keep hearing how more and more straight guys like…
“We were off the trail, but this couple came by and saw us masturbating. Could we get in trouble for this?” QUESTION: My buddy and I are both in shape and we hike a lot….
“It is remarkable how complex the brain is! The brain can track several major activities at once. Only be careful and sensible.” QUESTION: I drive cross-country a lot. During these long road trips, I love…
“I still feel some guilt and shame after I come…” QUESTION: I still feel some guilt and shame after I come. Even though I know better—I should not feel this. It’s not during the bate…
“…I’m afraid they’ll think I’m small. What can I do about this?” QUESTION: My penis seems really small to me compared with lots of guys I see online, including yours, Master Bruce. Fully as hard…
“I love to kiss guys while we bate together, but I also like sex with women sometimes…..what is this?” QUESTION: I love to kiss guys while we bate together, and while we bate each other’s…
“They say it’s not real sex, that it’s only for losers…” QUESTION: My buddies at work and in the hood, all act weird because I’m pretty open and proud about how much I love the…
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