“There are all sorts of subtle nuances to masturbatory pleasure, which involve pressure, tempos, particular strokes, the right touch, even fetishes and other aspects of arousal.” QUESTION: I’m in University and my roomies all love…

QUESTION: I’m healthy, in my 50s, and a mindful masturbator, so I don’t use porn a lot. But sometimes my erection doesn’t get very hard, even on cam with a hot bate bud. Not too…

“…just seeing a penis, still always thrills me to my core!” QUESTION: I am pretty much single-minded! My earliest memory is of how penises rocked my world, even then! Ever since, I’ve had a major…

A follow up to the original post about the “Million Dollar Point” QUESTION: Bruce, I’m not sure I understand your blog about the Million Dollar Point! I love to rub my perineum and press pretty…

This is not a matter of control; it is a matter of self-awareness and making ejaculation a choice. QUESTION: I’m home from college social distancing, but my family respects my privacy. A guy asked you…

QUESTION: I’m in college and I love to bate in the showers after soccer practice. Mostly other guys pretend to ignore it, but sometimes they watch me with interest, which excites me more! Sometimes they…

Guys get conditioned in their teens to believe orgasm and ejaculation have to go together, and that ejaculation is the ultimate, only this is not necessarily the case. QUESTION: Hey, Bruce, I really “get” the…