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Stefan Jax Healthy Friction

Bisexual BateWorld Member and Author Stefan Jax (Doggyboner) Experiences Healthy Friction For The First Time

BateWorld and The Bator Blog would like to preface this article by wishing everyone a happy Bi Pride Month and celebrating Bi Visibility through the month of September (Bi Visibility Day is September 23, 2021). Bisexuality exists, we see you, and we celebrate you.

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

My friend “Brett” has talked up Healthy Friction (HF) many times and was planning to go. He’s my friend who is also bi and married to a woman, and who has an open marriage to bate with guys like I do. And we do bate with guys including each other when he’s in town (the stories are in my main profile on BateWorld). I talked to my wife and she was OK with me going. No oral or anal is allowed and that’s our arrangement anyway. Then, Brett had to change plans and decided he couldn’t make it.

Since I’m also an introvert, this would be challenging going there alone, even though I have already been to a 25 guy bate party and several smaller circle jerks. I explained all this to my wife and she suggested I see if Brett’s room was still available. That would help to have a base of operations even though I live local to where the event was held here in Ft. Lauderdale. She just preferred that I not spend the night sleeping in bed with anyone. That’s reserved for us. I agreed and got on the wait-list the HF organizer set up and sure enough, a nice suite became available the last day. I was both stoked and nervous.

The Adventure Begins

I arrived for check-in wearing a sleeveless t-shirt, shorts and flips, freeballing, with my backpack and gym bags. I knew I would need little clothes for the four days since Pineapple Point is a clothing optional, all male, gay, men’s resort. One bag carried mostly bate toys. The gate opened and before me was a bator’s paradise. First of all, Pineapple Point is such a beautiful property. Secluded in a nice, downtown neighborhood, it has with lush tropical foliage and attentive staff to see to your every need and comfort. The short walk to the office took me by the main pool which was already lined with about two dozen naked men, half of whom were masturbating openly for all other guests and staff to see. It was an amazing and wonderful sight.

After I checked in my gorgeous room (I sent pics to my wife who said it had a “male sensibility”) I went to a local gay bar where there was a meet-and-greet for the event. I got some dinner to bring back with me and was happy to ditch my clothes for almost the whole rest of the stay. Coming out of my room, I met one of the other participants who was naked and having a drink in the Jacuzzi by our rooms. We knew we were both participants since the whole resort was reserved for guests of Health Friction exclusively.  We chatted for a moment and somehow the topic of porn came up and so did my dick, which he gave a greeting tug to, as was the HF tradition, he said. I responded in-kind then went on my way to the main pool.

Naked Men Around The Pool

Around the pool, there were still dozens of naked men in various stages of arousal. Most were bating solo. Some were helping each other out. Needless to say, this encouraged my own arousal and soon I was masturbating in front of everyone, just like they were. I hadn’t cum since two days prior (I usually cum once a day) and decided I might go one more day and just see how it goes. After about an hour of self-pleasuring by the pool in community, I went back to my room and had some wine and dinner then decided to check out the “focus room,” which was dedicated to showing porn where guys could relax with each other and stroke.

Diversity (And Consent) In The Focus Room

One thing that impressed me was the diversity of the other bators, there were white guys, black guys, Asian guys and Latino guys. All ages and body types and including differently abled guys. There were about 25 of us in the room so it was a little crowded (vaccinations were required with CDC card verification in advance to attend). I found an empty chair and put my towel down and started slowly masturbating and watching the porn. One guy came over and started playing with my penis and balls. While it felt good, I wasn’t really into him so politely declined further, content to just self-pleasure, watch porn and watch the other guys. Two guys especially started to make out in the corner while they did mutual masturbation with each other. I told them they looked hot doing that and they kind of chuckled and said thanks. Some guys came but most didn’t.

A True Batecation

After about an hour and a half in the focus room I went back to my room and watched some porn on my laptop. The whole weekend was pretty much like that where I stayed naked the whole time and alternated between jacking off with whoever was outside or wanking to porn in my room. It was a true batecation. The medical marijuana I brought added to the relaxation.

It was a true batecation.

The Next Morning Cock Worship

The next morning after breakfast I went out by the pool which was surrounded with naked guys lined up like turtles on a log jacking their boners. I sat within ear shot of this one guy. I learned his name was “Mike” and he seemed pretty friendly. He also had one of the biggest cocks there. Well, we were chatting and I asked if he was staying for the 2pm “Cock Worship” breakout session. He moved next to where I was sitting and we chatted some more. Mike said he’s not much into the worshiping part and I said I am and I’d give him a hand job if he likes and that I really like edging guys. He said he’d like that and went to get some lunch.

I took a short break in my room and came back to find out the cock worship was at a different pool in the complex so made my way there and saw Mike being serviced (hand jobs) by a couple guys so I stroked and watched all the other guys stroking each other’s cocks. Then there was an opening so I got next to Mike who was in a lounge chair and I got on my knees and took his large cock in my hand. It was fully hard and had amazing veins all up and down the rigid and thick, erect shaft. I started stoking up and down. In the meantime, a guy might walk by and offer Mike his cock or balls to play with. Some would cum right there and I got to watch their semen drool out of their deflating organs.

Back to Mike, if I would sense him getting close, as he did repeatedly, I would stop stroking and pay attention to his full ball sac or nipples (I watched Mike cum twice the night before in the focus room as guys were jerking him). He said that was good because it helped his edge and that I was doing a great job keeping him right on it. I appreciated his encouragement and really tried to give him my best hand job using different speeds and angles and grips, playing with just the head, and the sensitive area right beneath the head.

All the while, I was observing his body reactions and receiving his verbal instructions on when to slow down or what felt especially good. I also rubbed and pressed his taint. He was lubed up this whole time and kept putting more lube on. At one point, his dick was experiencing so much pleasure that I took my hand away and it would just bob and wag around like it was doing its happy dance. I just watched enthralled and so glad to be enjoying this breakout session.

Keep in mind, there were about a dozen guys behind me doing the same kinds of stuff Mike and I were doing and at the same time saying things like, “penis!” or “yeh, cub, show us that hole,” and just encouraging one another in their edging. A lot of the weekend was more about edging and stroking as opposed to cumming, though there was plenty of cumming, don’t get me wrong. Finally, after close to an hour, Mike needed a break.

My Three Day Load!

That night, I went into the focus group again and there were only about six guys including Mike. There were more guys down by the pool doing the poppers breakout session. I sat there masturbating to the porn and on the couch a guy who I had my eye on as being attractive sat next to Mike. They started mutual masturbating and soon enough they wound up in a king of clubs position to start frotting. This evolved into the new guy almost humping Mike as they frotted their cocks between them. I think one or both of them came, but I wasn’t sure.

Anyway, between watching them and the porn I was getting closer myself and I had decided I wanted to cum with an audience and this seemed like the perfect time, so I started stroking for the gold. I felt my orgasm approaching and called out that I was “getting close.” That brought Mike and the other guy’s attention and as I stretched my legs out they cheered me on and called out my name, “go Stefan,” and it was right then that I loudly shot my three-day load, fuck! Believe it or not, I watched more porn when I got back to my room.

The Last Day

The last day I called my wife, as I did each day, to touch base. I even shared some of the above highlights, generally. Then, I went down to the main pool again and just relaxed and masturbated off and on as the other guys did the same around me. At one point the event organizer sat next to me and we started chatting. I was still jerking my cock and he would look at it and shared some compliments. We were having a friendly conversation and he asked about local dinner recommendations and we wound up going to dinner together. I really enjoyed our conversation where we talked about what an amazing event this was and agreed that all guys would benefit from having regular batecations, whether they are gay, straight or bi. I found out he is also a former porn star, Chad James. Later on, we enjoyed some quality time in my room.

As a bi guy, I thoroughly enjoyed Healthy Friction. Even for straight guys who like circle jerks it’s a perfect event to enjoy and release sexual energy in an approving community of men who are there for the same reason. I’d be interested in your feedback in comments.

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Stefan Jax
StefanJax (aka doggyboner on BateWorld) is bisexual and married to a woman in an open relationship. He is an avid Masturbator whose goal is to help men of any sexual orientation feel better about masturbating solo and with other guys. He enjoys writing both erotic fiction and non-fiction, not only as bate fuel, but to share good, sex-positive examples of what is possible.

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StefanJax (aka doggyboner on BateWorld) is bisexual and married to a woman in an open relationship. He is an avid Masturbator whose goal is to help men of any sexual orientation feel better about masturbating solo and with other guys. He enjoys writing both erotic fiction and non-fiction, not only as bate fuel, but to share good, sex-positive examples of what is possible.

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  1. Fantastic account! I got aroused just reading the descriptions and narratives. Being in an atmosphere where nude men are freely masturbating self and others, building a tremendous sense of common purpose and sexual gaiety, is enormously appealing. I would love to attend Healthy Friction at the same venue; I will start planning now!

  2. Thank you for this; I enjoyed reading it and would love to attend a similar event if they exist in the UK or, alternatively, when I can travel again to the US.

  3. Thanks Stefan. Enjoyed that guys were relaxed and friendly with each other. Increased the eroticism for me. Happy that you had a good time my friend

  4. This was a wonderful brief synopsis of what can transpire at one of these events. (I really need to attend one of these!)

    I’m hosting a similar – but much, much smaller – event at my place in later October. Hoping to have a bating/bonding/hang-out kinda event. I’m sure I’ll blog about it after.

  5. I was one of the bators that weekend at Pineapple Point. The event vindicated my sexual history and experience and revitalized my erotic life. Stefan’s account is on the money (shot) so to speak. I look forward to many more Healthy Friction weekends.

    1. Hey there Elliot,
      Do you know who plans these events and are they held all across the US? My husband and I live in Michigan, we’d love to experience one of these events. Thanks for any info youmight have.

      Herman

      1. I organize Healthy Friction Weekend Of Masturbation. Haven’t held an event in the state of Michigan, Do you know of a location? Next weekend is in Palm Springs 14-18 October 2021. Once that weekend if over I can start the negotiations for 2022. Probably continuing the events we currently have in Palm Springs and Fort Lauderdale.

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  6. Wow, that is such a great blog entry, thanks for sharing! Sounds like such a hot and incredible event, I’d love to be at one in the future!!! 🙂

  7. Great read! I messaged you on BW about how I’ve had multiple bate while reading this. Makes me want to attend Healthy Friction in the future!

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