Dry Orgasms And How To Have Them
 | Bruce P. Grether |
| Posted on: | December 16, 2020 |
| Categorized: | Featured Articles |
A ‘How-to’ on Dry Orgasms
You might be great at edging, for hours even, prolonging your masturbation before reaching the point of no return and ejaculating. But how do you experience the orgasmic state without actually ejaculating? This thing I call “a continuous orgasmic state” is well worth the experimenting and practice to reach, Here I will share how you can experience this very state.
Let me begin by saying true excellence in masturbation is an ongoing work-in-progress. It takes dedication, regular practice, and will not happen overnight, not in a week, a month, or a year—it’s the work of a lifetime! However, let me assure you: if you set yourself on the Path of Penis with creativity and an open mind to break habits and try new things, it will just keep getting better with no end in sight!
One great thing about this pursuit is that there is no limit to how high and intense it can become. Still, in a very short time you can begin to feel major improvements in both the quality and quantity of pure penis pleasure you feel! The journey, as the saying goes, is always more important than the destination.
I believe I have written a description of how to achieve dry orgasm before in another blog here, but I’ll review it simply again and then describe how I enter the continuous orgasmic states which I experience regularly.
Dry Orgasm Technique
Your body is designed to either urinate or ejaculate, but not to do both at the same time. Orgasm occurs and registers primarily in your brain. So, when you are highly aroused and very close to that threshold called “ejaculatory inevitability,” but just prior to it, (that sweetest spot of edging champions!) if you deliberately relax the pee-stopper muscle, this signals your body that you want to pee.
Start and stop your stream of urine to locate the muscle. When you learn to time this just right, your brain slips over into orgasm anyway, but you don’t shoot your load. You can have orgasms slightly less intense than ejaculatory orgasm, only you won’t lose your erection and can soon continue masturbating to another orgasm and another.
Continuous Orgasmic State
Slightly less obvious, but for me perhaps even more rewarding is the continuous orgasmic state. For me this occurs after I have ascended several plateaus of intense pure penis pleasure and while I keep myself very close to ejaculatory inevitability for long periods, there is no longer any strain to control that impulse to go over the edge. Your body learns this from experience, as something it longs for. The indescribable intensity of this ecstatic condition becomes something genuinely more intense than ejaculatory orgasm, but somehow smoother, stretched-out, incredibly delicious. That’s the only way I can think to try to qualify it.
“True excellence in masturbation is an ongoing work-in-progress.“
Another feature of this kind of continuous orgasmic state is that I really do lose track of time—completely! I have no idea if it’s been five or ten minutes, and sometime find out it’s been an hour or more that I was in this potent erotic trance.
Actually, this is something I don’t think I truly experienced until I had been practicing what I call Mindful Masturbation for some years, without the distractions of porn or fantasy. Such bate fuel can be fabulous, of course, but may prove limiting to your states of bliss if you don’t also try the alternative of complete focus on yourself in the actual sense of BE HERE NOW.
Author Bruce P. Grether
A ‘How-to’ on Dry Orgasms
You might be great at edging, for hours even, prolonging your masturbation before reaching the point of no return and ejaculating. But how do you experience the orgasmic state without actually ejaculating? This thing I call “a continuous orgasmic state” is well worth the experimenting and practice to reach, Here I will share how you can experience this very state.
Let me begin by saying true excellence in masturbation is an ongoing work-in-progress. It takes dedication, regular practice, and will not happen overnight, not in a week, a month, or a year—it’s the work of a lifetime! However, let me assure you: if you set yourself on the Path of Penis with creativity and an open mind to break habits and try new things, it will just keep getting better with no end in sight!
One great thing about this pursuit is that there is no limit to how high and intense it can become. Still, in a very short time you can begin to feel major improvements in both the quality and quantity of pure penis pleasure you feel! The journey, as the saying goes, is always more important than the destination.
I believe I have written a description of how to achieve dry orgasm before in another blog here, but I’ll review it simply again and then describe how I enter the continuous orgasmic states which I experience regularly.
Dry Orgasm Technique
Your body is designed to either urinate or ejaculate, but not to do both at the same time. Orgasm occurs and registers primarily in your brain. So, when you are highly aroused and very close to that threshold called “ejaculatory inevitability,” but just prior to it, (that sweetest spot of edging champions!) if you deliberately relax the pee-stopper muscle, this signals your body that you want to pee.
Start and stop your stream of urine to locate the muscle. When you learn to time this just right, your brain slips over into orgasm anyway, but you don’t shoot your load. You can have orgasms slightly less intense than ejaculatory orgasm, only you won’t lose your erection and can soon continue masturbating to another orgasm and another.
Continuous Orgasmic State
Slightly less obvious, but for me perhaps even more rewarding is the continuous orgasmic state. For me this occurs after I have ascended several plateaus of intense pure penis pleasure and while I keep myself very close to ejaculatory inevitability for long periods, there is no longer any strain to control that impulse to go over the edge. Your body learns this from experience, as something it longs for. The indescribable intensity of this ecstatic condition becomes something genuinely more intense than ejaculatory orgasm, but somehow smoother, stretched-out, incredibly delicious. That’s the only way I can think to try to qualify it.
“True excellence in masturbation is an ongoing work-in-progress.“
Another feature of this kind of continuous orgasmic state is that I really do lose track of time—completely! I have no idea if it’s been five or ten minutes, and sometime find out it’s been an hour or more that I was in this potent erotic trance.
Actually, this is something I don’t think I truly experienced until I had been practicing what I call Mindful Masturbation for some years, without the distractions of porn or fantasy. Such bate fuel can be fabulous, of course, but may prove limiting to your states of bliss if you don’t also try the alternative of complete focus on yourself in the actual sense of BE HERE NOW.
Author Bruce P. Grether
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Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful Spiritual Words of Wisdom, of Erotic Bliss, and of Self-Loving, Bruce! I’m still practicing myself – sometimes I combine squeezing my PC Muscles (Relaxing the Pee-Stopper Muscles), along with deep belly breathing, pressing my Million Dollar Point, and using the Finger Stop Method.
Thank you for this writing, Bruce. You always provide such great food for bate and thought.
Beautifully written, as always Bruce!
I wish I had read this years ago as my quest for multiple dry orgasms took over 20 years for me to accomplish. I had most of the clues, read numerous books that got me close (or even there on occasion) but never consistently. I would give up for a time and continue to edge, always wondering why I could never achieve those continuous orgasms that I desired to experience.
It wasn’t until a few years ago that I made a renewed commitment to Bruce’s mindful masturbation practices that I finally reached the extended bliss I had dreamed of all those years. For me, the two difference makers were 1) Allowing myself whatever time my mind, soul and body needed to practice. And not just for a few weeks or months, but truly dedicated mindful practice of long sessions of meditative self love without distractions – in my case, an hour or more uninterrupted every day for over 6 months (and I mean, every day with very few exceptions), and 2) an increased focus on the breathing techniques necessary to unlock a host of benefits, not only the ability to get into that continuous orgasmic zone, but also to significantly improve my health through stress reduction, improved sleep and documented blood pressure reduction.
I can’t thank you, enough!
Inspiring fellas. I just turned 60, porn has become a turn off you are addressing some important issues. Thank you.