Bator Life

So the second part of this practice to experience dry orgasms and possibly multiple male orgasms, come when you are masturbating. This is a challenge of fine-tuning, and not so much a feat of obsessive control, as of paying really, really close attention to your level of arousal, and then using your ability to relax that pee-stopper muscle at just the right moment. This can reward you beyond your wildest dreams!

How would you like to have as many orgasms as you want without having to wait to get over the after-effects of a full-blown ejaculation?

I’m in a hot bubble bath, using a great foaming product that doesn’t have strong chemical fragrance or any irritants to the sensitive opening at the tip of my fully engorged penis. The strokes on my erection are slick and wet, while under the water I’ve gently yet firmly inserted my middle finger into my anus. Within the silky inner wall of my rectum, my finger encounters a distinct bulge that I begin to slowly press and rub with spectacular results: glorious storms of sensation; nearly intolerable bliss…

On Skype, I’m sharing masturbation with my handsome friend who lives in another part of the world, when he grins sheepishly: “Do you mind if I insert my finger?” I tell him, “Of course not, please do!” So adding more lube, he carefully inserts his middle finger into his anus. I see on his face, the intensity of his bliss notch up even higher, as his knuckle stimulates his prostate while his other hand caresses his erection…

One of the most important things you can do to enhance the quality of your erections, as well as improve control over the urge to ejaculate while you are edging, is to do perineum clenches, or Kegel Exercsies.

Ahhhh!!! Your slickened hand glides smoothly and firmly over the glistening length and thickness and the gleaming bulbous head of your rampant erection—a description of bator heaven for most guys! Lubrication makes all the difference in how incredibly intense and blissful your masturbation practice feels.

Masturbation is “milking your penis,” right? Ok, not really. This milking masturbation technique is called the Irish Pilgrim. The name is self-explanatory, and no you don’t have to be Irish or a cow to try this renowned masturbation technique. Well, maybe, but that’s a story for another time.

The Erogenous Body

To pursue excellence as a male masturbator, you not only want to arouse your entire body but also to invite every part of your genital and pelvic region to participate in generating those ecstatic waves that flood your entire being with bliss. Plus, there’s nothing wrong with a lot of focus on the penis, as that’s where so much sensation comes from. Still, your entire body can be viewed as an erogenous zone.

Your masturbation practice, no matter how great, can intensify simply by getting creative: try new masturbation techniques, deliberately shift your focus, seek out the undiscovered country of the Masturbatory Frontier! We all get into habits, and habits are not entirely bad, still in the realm of excellence among male masturbators, it’s always good to periodically break the mold.

You can stroke yourself high-and-higher indefinitely, which can go far beyond what guys sometimes call edging, allowing the intense penis pleasure to radiate through your entire body and light up every one of your trillions of cells. When you’ve got a great bate going, get your body moving: walk around and keep masturbating, even do knee-bends and keep masturbating. Remind yourself to take a DEEP belly breath while you masturbate! It’s such a sweet, sweet ride, both endless and limitless!

Male masturbation is always a good thing, and it is the most common sexual experience on the planet. The only possible dark side comes if a masturbator reinforces guilt or shame in the process; the best way to get rid of those factors is to burn them out with extreme, high-quality sessions of physical self-love. The surrender to pure penile pleasure can help to make you a better man.

Masturbating is actually something like one of those humungous multi-stage rockets that they send up from Cape Canaveral, where you see this gigantic upright thing standing ready and waiting for ignition, then lift-off into Bater Bliss orbit. Yes, there are plenty of specifics that you can actually try that may help your lift-off into the Goon Zone where gravity can’t get you any longer, and you’re in erotic free-fall!