Bate Life

We can share the sexy and nurturing experience of stroking our cocks wherever we are, and that feels great! To be honest, it’s pretty amazing! It gives me strength and confidence and frees me to express my true feelings because I can actually see men all around the world doing the same thing. What could be more affirming to our masculinity but sharing one the most pleasurable experiences that is uniquely our own?

Jason Armstrong Interview on Toronto’s Sex City!

This months Cock Meditation from Sexologist, Jallen Rix is a “Guided Visualization.” This genre of meditation takes the listener on an adventure – a kind of storytelling that the listener gets to imagine themselves within the experience. Since much of the visualization is left up to the listener’s fertile imagination, these kinds of meditations can become particularly personal and customized.

Why I Love Hard Nudity

For as long as I can remember I’ve had a penis. I didn’t ask for one, and, really, I don’t remember thinking too much about it for most of my first decade. I didn’t even know what to call it then…

We’re looking for writers who can contribute articles about masturbation, the arts, activism, grooming, fashion, poetry or any other damn thing you can think of that might be of interest to our readers.

Hugh Hefner deserves a huge amount of credit for mainstreaming sex in the modern age. He brought a dynamic and cross-platform lifestyle dimension into the lives of men, refining from the start his own vision of contemporary manhood that included personal style, living quarters, hot rides, literature and the arts (and of course, sexy ladies) as integral elements of the well-rounded man.

Here is an opportunity to identify and feel great about the positive aspects of your masculinity in the accepting and nurturing presence of other like-hearted men, without competition, comparison or shame. There’s just something absolutely unique about being affirmed of your masculinity BY OTHER MEN, but in our culture these rituals have been upstaged by competition, performance, humiliation, fear of failure, bullying, hazing, and violence, to name a few. It doesn’t sound all that affirming or fun, does it?

I’ve said so often that one man’s art is another man’s porn, and everyone’s line is different. Just showing your dick is porn to some. I don’t know… I’ve been really enjoying expressing my sexual and artistic freedom in these photos, and the fact that some guys (and women!) seem to be inspired by a man of my age putting it all out there in a thoughtful way

But my second inspiration was BateWorld.com. Here, I met other men for whom this experience was just as revelatory. My book is dedicated in part to all the men who shared their sexual journeys with me. I realized that for so many of us, our sexuality is not peripheral to our experience of being human, but for many, it’s central. And I wanted to honor that — in myself and in the community that has sprung from BateWorld. I think if I had read my own book when I was 20 and starting my sexual life, I might have saved myself some trouble.

When you’re feeling “less than,” one of the most immediate ways to counter those messages is to do what really, deeply nurtures you. List out the things that make your heart absolutely blossom – and when Valentine’s Day comes around, do one or more of these exquisite things. And don’t forget self-pleasuring. After all, masturbation is one of the most intimate and loving acts that you can do with the one you know the best.

Cock meditation uses BOTH our body and our mind to generate wholeness, deep satisfaction, and just some good ol’ sexy fun.

Finally, for the last of the releases from my album RISE, please avail yourselves of several audiovisual variations of the track ALL OVER THE HOUSE. ALL OVER THE HOUSE was originally inspired by a video…