The Secret Of Multiple Male Orgasm Revealed
When students come to me searching to improve their sex lives, it’s not long before the conversation turns to that Holy Grail of sexuality, the ever elusive multiple male orgasm. For many guys, it is all they seek, like a hidden treasure unfairly stolen or denied them. It appears to be something other guys can do, and it drives men crazy to be considered a one pop shop.
My immediate response is to remind them that every orgasm is special. I always say that I gift myself an orgasm rather than give myself one or use the extremely common but desultory phrase “have an orgasm.” You have a penis, but it’s what you do with it that is the gift. It bears reminding how lucky we are that just by rubbing our penises long enough we produce feelings of such bliss that transcend our bodies, the pursuit of which has also forged history as we know it.
An eruption of sperm created each and every one of us. There are five acts common to every man who walks the earth: we are born, we eat, we sleep, die… and along the way we ejaculate sperm. No orgasm is a small thing.
Plus, as we discussed already in The Truth About The Male Orgasm Part 1: It’s Not What You Think, orgasm and ejaculation are separate phenomena. Technically all males are all capable of multiple orgasms if we recognize that our orgasm happens as we edge, even if we haven’t spewed a droplet of ejaculate.
So with that in mind, we should never feel dissatisfied by the graceful bliss biology has bestowed upon us, I do acknowledge that it would be wonderful to enjoy that bliss twice or three times in a row. Not every time, but sometimes. Hey, we shouldn’t be selfish, should we?
Okay, so here are my useful tips for men and boys interested in creaming themselves repeatedly without having to wait.
Discovering Your Edge
Firstly, the way to cum repeatedly is by not cumming at all. You will need to [simple_tooltip content=’To edge is a masturbation technique (used mostly, but not exclusively by men) where you intentionally bring yourself to the brink (edge) of orgasm – but don‘t cum. Instead, you stop and let the pleasurable feelings die down. You repeat this process of bringing yourself to the edge as many times as you wish (or can).Urban Dictionary‘]edge[/simple_tooltip]. A lot. You will not find the Holy Grail hidden within arm’s reach. Wise men have journeyed for years to find its location. So don’t expect to multi-ejaculate after a five-minute wank. Edge for hours, or days if you can stand it. The longer you edge, the closer you will be to holding that treasure in your hand.
Secondly, get your hand off it. The first time I experienced a multiple male orgasm, I was not seeking it at all. I was very relaxed in a warm bath on a Sunday. I had edged myself for nearly an hour and masturbated my body completely. My nipples were hard-wired to pleasure and I’d given a heap of attention to my taint. Simply put, I was in bliss.
The “So-Called” Ruined Orgasm
The first ejaculation was a mistake of sorts. I didn’t want to ruin my bliss, but I did that thing all edgers dread, which is stroking one time too many on the point of no return. I pulled my hand away, but it was too late. My brain had hit the switch. Sperm erupted from my spasming penis, congealing into sticky strands in the warm water. I didn’t touch myself during the ejaculation, hoping I could somehow salvage myself from the wreck.
Some guys call this a ruined orgasm, which has a negative connotation. Far from ruined, you’ve experienced a wonderful orgasm, intense, and it felt good to cum this way. A kind of hands-free orgasm. What I felt was an “Oh no, I’m going to cum!” jolt, followed by a deep pressure building behind my stiff cock. Then I felt a “will it, won’t it” protracted suspension (elongated because I wasn’t pounding my meat with my fist) before an “ahhhhhh” uncontrollable eruption of jizz from my blissfully spasming dick.
Realizing The Completeness Of Multiple Male Orgasm
What is happening in that “protracted suspension” is that your brain has told your penis to ejaculate. Your sperm is moved from your testes into a small sack at the base of your shaft where it is readied to “shoot” (maybe to make babies, maybe to have competitions with your mates). If you masturbate through this whole process, it is pleasurable, but it is sped up. If you take your hands away, effectively “ruining” it, the process will still happen, and no matter how protracted, something will remain incomplete.
It’s was a sense of incompleteness that overwhelmed me in the warm water of my bath that Sunday. And so I reached down and began to wank again. An immediate and awe-inspiring sense that I could cum again overwhelmed me. Within a minute, more ejaculate was solidifying in the bath water. I repeated the process of taking my hand away, finding my penis again spermed but left yearning. Again, it felt great. So I did it a third time, which took a minute or more, but this time I “rode it out” by fully rubbing my ejaculation to satisfied completion. I had ejaculated three times in as many minutes.
In all my experience, this is the only way I have ever seen a man multi-ejaculate. I’ve seen men take their hands to their nipples, or their taints or their holes, in lieu of riding out their orgasm. In doing so, they gift themselves two, three, four or even five ejaculations. What they’re doing is what I learned by accident in the bath that Sunday. It works. It’s common to all men who are in tune with their bodies.
A Final Note on Relaxation
My final point touches upon a point I made earlier about the brain. Your orgasm happens in your penis, but your brain triggers ejaculation. Unless you have your thinking right, you will never achieve multiple male orgasm. You will never cum a second time by furiously whacking yourself off red and raw, hoping, praying, wishing you could batter some more by wanking harder, faster, stronger… but, no. It won’t work. You must be relaxed and possess an awareness of the rhythms of your body. Finally, you must cultivate an attitude that if it happens, well that’s pretty cool, but if it doesn’t, well worse shit has gone down.
Try it. Put these tips into practice. But please don’t sulk if it doesn’t work. No screaming tantrums that the other boys can do it so why can’t you, okay? Multiple male orgasm is a try, fail, try again, proposition. The Holy Grail is more than a cup: it’s a fucking grail.