Many men in today’s world (sometimes myself included) enjoy masturbating to porn on the Internet, which can prove highly arousing and provide great bate fuel. In my opinion, porn is sacred, as it shares an extremely important part of our lives that most mainstream cultures still frown upon and often seek to keep hidden.
One aspect of this fantastic cornucopia of stimulating imagery is not entirely beneficial, however, and some enthused male masturbators may not wish to hear about this reality. Studies suggest that too much reliance upon the endless novelty of arousing images available at the click of a button can actually desensitize certain pleasure centers in the brain.
In fact, some younger men who spend many, many hours and hours surfing porn while masturbating are actually suffering erectile dysfunction, more commonly than older men. This doesn’t mean porn is bad, but it’s powerful and is a two-edged sword, which can have drawbacks. Maybe this tells to keep a bit more focus on ourselves.
The good news is that there are different consequences to stimulating yourself with actual imagery of more ordinary men (instead of pro porn models) such as those who share images and videos on Bateworld, In particular, sharing live via video conference with actual men as we masturbate together is rewarding and a genuine form of sharing.
We can actually bond with fellow men, particularly when we are open to trusting one another to share our full body and faces online, and to engage in some actual conversation, to learn a bit about each other, so we’re not just masturbating with another penis or set of genitalia, but with another man! Take a real interest in your Phallic Brothers.
This is a safe haven for men who wish to share intimately, but not necessarily in person, the invitation to witness each other online via visual and audio functions available in many formats online. My experience is that men long to be witnessed, and to witness one another’s aroused genitals and self-pleasuring practice this way: we inspire one another, and we bond, even if we may never learn the details of each other’s personalities and daily lives. Maybe a lot of those details are not so important?
This is a valuable, even a priceless form of sharing that only today’s Internet Age makes possible.
Men all over the planet long for this kind of contact and sharing, and while it may prove more problematical in person, online there can be a certain level of discretion, and at the same time openness that exhilarates and stimulates. We learn from one another.
I suggest a few parameters:
- Don’t start with a phone number, not to be paranoid, just out of mutual respect for each other’s parameters, it’s cooler to get to know each other via some form of video conference not necessarily tied to a specific location.
- Strive for generosity of spirit, always to be as encouraging as possible, and not judge anyone by their appearance or age.
- Seek to make your contact comfortable, and you can expect the same in return; if someone does not treat you in a way you feel comfortable with, you are not obligated to continue, thank him and sign off.
Most men in masturbatory bliss are capable of great kindness and generosity of spirit.
It’s an amazing planet of male masturbators out there, and I believe if we get more and more men of all sexual persuasions masturbating together online globally, it can even help us to move toward world peace.
Call me a dreamer — I don’t mind!