In Pursuit of Masturbation Excellence
Your masturbation practice, no matter how great, can intensify simply by getting creative: try new masturbation techniques, deliberately shift your focus, seek out the undiscovered country of the Masturbatory Frontier! We all get into habits, and habits are not entirely bad, still in the realm of excellence among male masturbators, it’s always good to periodically break the mold. Photograph and videotape your practice, then look at the result. It’s healthy to get aroused observing yourself “from the outside” during masturbation, and you can also get a new perspective on what you’re doing, and not doing. Your masturbation practice is always a work in progress, the pursuit of fine art.
The Frenulum Fiddler Masturbation Technique:
For many men, the most sensitive spot on your penis is on the underside of the head, the tiny ridge of skin called the “frenulum,” a Latin word for the bridle of a horse. If you don’t have an especially sensitive spot there, nothing’s wrong with you; you’re just a bit different from some guys. The frenulum, for intact men, tends to help pull the foreskin back up onto the head a bit after you push it down, and for circumcised guys like me, who have a sensitive frenulum, it’s a remnant of that.
This little “trigger” can become exquisitely intense, though sometimes you need to give it a bit of time to fully activate. Try a single-finger rubbing there, with the thumb atop the glans. You may even have enough tissue there to pinch the frenulum carefully, pull it out from the shaft a bit and rub, like Aladdin rubbing his lamp. Some men can easily reach orgasm this way, so experiment: explore the possibilities!
Don’t Neglect Your Nips:
Of course, you probably invite your nipples into masturbation already. Like the frenulum, a man’s nips vary in sensitivity from man to man. With special care and attention, it is possible to awaken male nipples to greater sensitivity. Never cause real pain or bleeding, but you can place specially designed alligator clamps, clothespins, and even the kind of first-aid suction cups designed to suck snake venom out of a wound over your nipples. Use some oil or lube on your nips to increase sensation: try pinching them, pulling, flicking, twirling them. You might even feel a special buzz of erotic joy by fiddling with your frenulum at the same time you tend to your nipples. So bate on!