Masturbation 101: The Rosy Palm Technique

Focus on the Frenulum

itisinthehandWhen it comes to masturbation, the methods of achieving orgasm are endless. Even our standard technique, the one we use day in and day out, can be varied with very little effort! In fact, there is no inherent reason why every masturbation experience can’t feel like the first time, every time. From the tried and true hand to fleshlights and vibrators, there are an array of sex toys available to spice up the action. Do you want to go dry? Lube? What kind of lube and how much? Anal play, ball play and anything and everything that is in and around your environment at the time. Then, your imagination. Sometimes even your imagination can be enough to make you explode. At the risk of repeating myself, the options are beautifully endless.

However, let’s talk about the oldest most original, simple yet incredibly arousing, self-orgasmic masturbation technique to date. I’m talking more than the basic (yet highly effective) up-and-down technique, but one that is a more condensed, focused version of this. When you’re going up and down or just touching your penis in general, we know of its most sensitive places. The highly most sensitive part of the penis, [simple_tooltip content=’The frenulum of prepuce of penis, often known simply as the frenulum, is an elastic band of tissue under the glans penis that connects the foreskin (prepuce) to the vernal mucosa, and helps contract the foreskin over the glans. Wikipedia‘]the frenulum[/simple_tooltip], is the focus here.

Some of us masturbate using a little known technique called the Rosy Palm. This is when you grip your penis with one hand and use the other to rub (or jack off) just the cock head. However, with this basic technique (that does work for a lot of guys), the focus is mainly the top part of the head – there really is no focus on the frenulum which is the underside (or back) of the head. The frenulum is that piece of skin that stretches almost to the tip of your cock to where your shaft was circumcised (it’s the same area even if you’re uncircumcised). For some men this area of skin can be really tight and even more sensitive especially if you do happen to be uncircumcised.

The main focus is the backside of your penis head, right on the frenulum. The idea with this technique is to cause orgasmic pleasure by playing with this area of your penis alone. Pressing your thumb just below your shroom and wrapping your index/middle/ring finger (left or right, or if you like to rotate between hands like myself) along the frenulum you are ready for action. Pre-ejaculate is perfect for this technique, otherwise a little lube will help. The more friction the better, however, we don’t want to desensitise your penis or anything.


Rosy Palm With some kind of lubrication, rubbing the tip of your dick’s head against the palm of your other hand.
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This is a little twist to the Rosy Palm technique and combining the two will make for an absolute perfect masturbation session. Place your fingers in the right areas as explained above, but bring your palm around so that it’s now gripping the top of your penis, leaving your index/middle/ring finger rubbing the frenulum. Not only does this heighten this experience and the technique itself, but it can sometimes feel like someone else is getting you off.

The idea here is to keep the focus on your frenulum. By rubbing and tugging on this area it affects the shaft ever so lightly, but it isn’t necessary to reach orgasm. You can play with your balls if that’s your thing or anything else for that matter, but again, it isn’t necessary with this technique. Give this technique a try if you haven’t and let us know how it was for you!

2 replies
  1. boxersguynj
    boxersguynj says:

    rosey palm may work for cut guys but guys with foreskin heads very sensative too much friction at head and u get sore

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  2. Pleased
    Pleased says:

    Well I have just given the ROSE PALM a try. I can’t believe fuckin great it felt! I even jerked or stroked just the head with my first finger and thumb going just under the back or top side of the head, my goodness, the sensitivity of the rim and the head, I kept it going for as long as I was possibly able before I couldn’t stand it any longer(7 minutes)and the amount of sperm that I shot, omg….I loved it, and the pre-cut, I never produced so much!!! Thank’s for the technique, my girl can take a break for awhile now…lol….

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