Sometimes when I ejaculate in the presence of another man or men, my screams and shouts of ecstatic release with the orgasm are so loud that I’ve actually frightened a few guys! And even when I choose not to ejaculate, I can groan and growl alarmingly…
Though I definitely advocate breaking the “sound barrier” of conditioned quiet or silence while you masturbate and experience orgasm, there’s certainly not any right or wrong on the subject: who knows? Maybe some guys bottle it up and create a special intensity in the quietude of their silent style of release!
Still, it’s most common that guys keep from moaning and groaning, sighing and gasping, shouting out and thrashing in a noisy way due to conditioned inhibition. Usually, this stems, as I explained in Part 1 of this blog, from a lack of privacy during boyhood and teen years when masturbation tends to become a delicious obsession, daily and more often, though usually there’s a need to keep it a muted “secret.”
The truth is that some sensible parents are perfectly aware that their children (like themselves) are likely to want a lot of private time during teen years and early adulthood to explore self-pleasure. Some wise parents remember this from their own youth. Only that’s still, unfortunately, quite exceptional.
Once you have a more independent, adult living situation, with the possibility to choose and enforce a certain amount of privacy, it’s a great idea to try really letting go,. Makes sounds of pleasure deliberately, if necessary at first. You’re likely to discover that—like me—the sounds become totally natural, louder, and actually enhance your enjoyment of masturbation many times over.
In today’s global world of male masturbators (of which Bateworld is an excellent prime example) one healthy trend is towards monkey-bating, and noisy bestial masturbation. As a masturbation technique, I seriously encourage you to try monkey-bating, if you have not. Either solo or in the right kind of sympathetic company, in-person or via video conference, start off doing a kind of “Tarzan movie” ape or monkey call: “Woop-ooo-UP, WOOOP! OO-up! Woo-UP! Oooooop-oop-ooop!!!” and so on.
Again, this may feel contrived and self-conscious at first, like making passionate, expressive sounds in general, only I seriously feel there’s something deeply cellular, even a kind of genetic memory that gets awakened in a man’s body and penis when he surrenders to this kind of monkey-bate. We are, after all, honored to be animals.
Of course, loud, impassioned pleasurable noises are not confined to monkeys or apes, in fact, all kinds of growls, roars, hooting, howling like wolves, baying and barking like dogs may enhance your bate—crazy as it sounds at first!
Try it: I think you may like this very much.