Ahhhh!!! Your slickened hand glides smoothly and firmly over the glistening length and thickness and the gleaming bulbous head of your rampant erection—a description of bator heaven for most guys!
Lubrication makes all the difference in how incredibly intense and blissful your masturbation practice feels. Exactly the same things don’t work best for all guys. Some intact masturbators—guys endowed with foreskins—choose not to use lubrication on their penises at all; the skin and the pre-cum that pools under it on the penis head may provide plentiful stimulation. Other intact men do enjoy lubrication during masturbation.
For circumcised men (like me and many other men born in the USA since World War 2) lubrication is crucial to increase your masturbation pleasure many times over. This also protects your penis, prevents callus, or desensitizing from too much dry rubbing on those delicate, sensitive skin surfaces. Using too much is always better than too little. Commercial water-based lubrication can feel terrific, with one major problem: it dries out pretty quickly. You’ll need to keep a little spray bottle of water handy to refresh the lube periodically. This is also what you need for a Fleshlight , as oil or silicon is not good for the device. (I offer my own super special Fleshlight alternative at the end of this blog!)
You can purchase tubes and little bottles of silicon-based “personal” lubricant that really does feel terrific for stroking your penis, and it’s easy to add another little squirt to your erection as needed without really interrupting the delicious action of stimulating your penis.
OIL BASED LUBES
Among oil-based lubes, one of the most popular among today’s Internet-savvy male masturbators is “Albolene,” technically formulated and sold as a cosmetic remover. Its immense popularity and jar with a blue lid has practically become a religious cult in itself! It’s a great lube, though it can be a bit messy if you’re on a computer or phone while you masturbate. I love the feel on my penis, but it’s not my personal favorite…
MY PERSONAL FAVORITE LUBE
100% pure organic coconut oil, unrefined. This feels the best of all to me on my circumcised penis, and a dip of the fingers in the warmed liquid form, or a few chunks of solid oil rubbed between your palms performs masturbatory magic on your penis that lasts and lasts. It does tend to solidify at cooler room temps, but is easy and most rewarding to warm up on your fingers and on your hot, thick, stiff erection! It’s good for your skin, and wipes off quite easily on paper towel, plus it doesn’t leave a lot of oil on your computer keyboard or mouse. It’s easy to wash from your hands when necessary, and washes out of towels and sheets easily.
SUPER LUBE FOR THE FLESHLIGHT
For an incredible Fleshlight session, the very best thing I know is to make a small batch of goop yourself that’s more slick than pure pre-cum. This stuff stays wet inside the sleeve of the wicked device that’s driving you crazy! Take 1/4th teaspoon Xanthan gum powder, which you can get at a health food or baking supply store. Whisk it into 1/4th cup of H2O, and even if it seems a bit lumpy at first, let it sit for a little while. This will feel indescribably delicious on your inserted, massaged, throbbing member. You can keep it in a little jar in the fridge.
The Xanthan gum gel also works as a superb water-based lube with occasional spritzing from an H2O bottle—so enjoy your lubricated penis!