Lubricated Masturbation Techniques

Lubed for the bate

Ahhhh!!! Your slickened hand glides smoothly and firmly over the glistening length and thickness and the gleaming bulbous head of your rampant erection—a description of bator heaven for most guys!

Lubrication makes all the difference in how incredibly intense and blissful your masturbation practice feels. Exactly the same things don’t work best for all guys. Some intact masturbators—guys endowed with foreskins—choose not to use lubrication on their penises at all; the skin and the pre-cum that pools under it on the penis head may provide plentiful stimulation. Other intact men do enjoy lubrication during masturbation.

WATER-BASED LUBES

For circumcised men (like me and many other men born in the USA since World War 2) lubrication is crucial to increase your masturbation pleasure many times over. This also protects your penis, prevents callus, or desensitizing from too much dry rubbing on those delicate, sensitive skin surfaces. Using too much is always better than too little. Commercial water-based lubrication can feel terrific, with one major problem: it dries out pretty quickly. You’ll need to keep a little spray bottle of water handy to refresh the lube periodically. This is also what you need for a Fleshlight , as oil or silicon is not good for the device. (I offer my own super special Fleshlight alternative at the end of this blog!)

SILICON-BASED LUBES

You can purchase tubes and little bottles of silicon-based “personal” lubricant that really does feel terrific for stroking your penis, and it’s easy to add another little squirt to your erection as needed without really interrupting the delicious action of stimulating your penis.

OIL BASED LUBES

Among oil-based lubes, one of the most popular among today’s Internet-savvy male masturbators is “Albolene,” technically formulated and sold as a cosmetic remover. Its immense popularity and jar with a blue lid has practically become a religious cult in itself! It’s a great lube, though it can be a bit messy if you’re on a computer or phone while you masturbate. I love the feel on my penis, but it’s not my personal favorite…

MY PERSONAL FAVORITE LUBE

100% pure organic coconut oil, unrefined. This feels the best of all to me on my circumcised penis, and a dip of the fingers in the warmed liquid form, or a few chunks of solid oil rubbed between your palms performs masturbatory magic on your penis that lasts and lasts. It does tend to solidify at cooler room temps, but is easy and most rewarding to warm up on your fingers and on your hot, thick, stiff erection! It’s good for your skin, and wipes off quite easily on paper towel, plus it doesn’t leave a lot of oil on your computer keyboard or mouse. It’s easy to wash from your hands when necessary, and washes out of towels and sheets easily.

SUPER LUBE FOR THE FLESHLIGHT

For an incredible Fleshlight session, the very best thing I know is to make a small batch of goop yourself that’s more slick than pure pre-cum. This stuff stays wet inside the sleeve of the wicked device that’s driving you crazy! Take 1/4th teaspoon Xanthan gum powder, which you can get at a health food or baking supply store. Whisk it into 1/4th cup of H2O, and even if it seems a bit lumpy at first, let it sit for a little while. This will feel indescribably delicious on your inserted, massaged, throbbing member. You can keep it in a little jar in the fridge.

The Xanthan gum gel also works as a superb water-based lube with occasional spritzing from an H2O bottle—so enjoy your lubricated penis!

29 replies
  1. Anonymous
    Anonymous says:

    My favorite is also the 100% pure organic coconut oil. Tried all the rest and hands down and around my cock or a friends the best by far.
    The hint for fleshlight lube is my next experience with a homemade lube. Thank you

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  2. Anwerehl
    Anwerehl says:

    Once again another educational, informative post from Bruce P. Grether to help us spice up masturbation. From an expert like him, nothing but the best care and attention for your Penis.

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    • Bruce P. Grether
      Bruce P. Grether says:

      Yes, olive oil works very well, and with both olive and coconut, some guys like the scent, others may not. One major reason I favor coconut oil above all others is it’s so good for the skin of your penis, + it takes very little + it washes off your hands more easily than most, when you may wish to clean up your keyboard or turn a door knob!

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  3. Lennart H
    Lennart H says:

    When in a hurry, I often masturbate in the shower, using some shampoo to make it slippery. Discovered this recently, and have begun to shower way more frequently! ???? ????

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  4. DirtyJockstrap
    DirtyJockstrap says:

    I’m an Albolene addict. I keep a jar right next to my laptop in my masturbatorium/dining room. I keep another jar on the nightstand of my bate chamber/bedroom. Sure, it can be kind of messy but I like getting all greasy during a long, hot & sweaty bate. I’m curious about coconut oil but I don’t want the scent, if there is one. I do love coconut, though. I rarely use water-based or silicone lubes as they dry out much too fast. I make sure to wash my toys, especially my stretchy cock rings & slings, thoroughly in Dawn immediately after use. So far, so good. Viva Albolene!!!

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    • Bruce P. Grether
      Bruce P. Grether says:

      This seriously is a matter of whatever works best for any guys. I do understand Albolene is almost a religion for many male masturbators, and I totally respect it as such.

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  5. bus9463
    bus9463 says:

    100% coconut oil all the way. I don’t like putting a petroleum based product on my cock day after day. Who knows what that does when its absorbed into the body over time but coconut oil is natural and good for the body not to mention if somebody gives you a BJ after you have lubed up its all natural . Try it guys if you haven’t. Its must cheaper then Albolene and I think more slick and last and lasts. Whew can you tell I like it and my cock skin feels so soft for days.

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  6. Erik
    Erik says:

    Oil based lubes are my favorite since I started jerking off at age 12. For years I mixed equal parts Albolene & Vaseline and kept it in a jar, I really thought it was perfect. It was messy, but the orgasms were so shattering that I didn’t care. A few years ago my partner began buying 100% virgin coconut oil for cooking, so I tried it on my dick. What a revelation!!! It’s slick enough for a great bate, lasts a long time, and requires very little. It’s very cheap considering how long a big jar lasts. It doesn’t have any chemicals like petroleum jelly. Maybe the biggest surprise is how easily it is to clean off since it’s not a thick oil. It’s also great for shaving, as a skin lotion, lip balm.

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    • Bruce P. Grether
      Bruce P. Grether says:

      Thanks for telling this as a bit of a story. I definitely try not to take sides on an issue, but I like your phrase: “What a revelation!!!” Indeed, a little last a long time. To me it feels best.

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  7. gscocks
    gscocks says:

    i’ve always been fond of coating my cock with vaseline, then applying a good amount of baby oil. the only other one i used to enjoy was astroglide, before it got pricey .

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  8. Anonymous
    Anonymous says:

    If you guys want a slick trip to penis heaven lube up with alboline and when it gets warm and moving splash your cock with a few dabs of bio-oil available at CVS. The two together will give you the deepest toe curling orgasms ever!

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  9. Anonymous
    Anonymous says:

    I have found that ultrasound gel is an awesome lube. It is water based and lasts a long time. Feels good on the cock and hand.

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  10. Anonymous
    Anonymous says:

    What a great suggestion and some really good comments in the replies. I love watching porn of young cut guys (usually American) jerking off but always seems something is missing when they don’t use lube. Lube is so much more fun for cut guys and so much more pleasurable I really can’t understand why they dont all use it. Plus the sound of rubbing with lube and the clear extra pleasure is such an added turn on to watch.

    May cut guys who use lube rule the planet lol!

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    • Bruce P. Grether
      Bruce P. Grether says:

      Excellent point, Brother! Most definitely any circumcised guy can usually feel a lot more sensation, intensity, stronger bliss, bu using plenty of lube. With intact guys, understandably it varies more, as the foreskin will keep the penis head lubed with precut, if a guys has enough. Some intact guys also enjoy using lube, especially when they want to keep thespian pulled down from he head quite a bit for a while. Thanks!

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  11. Stevie
    Stevie says:

    During many years of enthusiastic masterbating with a circumcised cock I have used many different lubes including baby oil, ky jelly, various moisturizers etc. Using Vaseline in recent years however has been an absolute revelation. The sensation during a session and eventual climax is intense . My masterbation has never been more satisfying . Pleasuring myself at least twice a day has also helped my sex life with my wife. I am able to last quite a long time during intercourse – long enough for her to cum a least twice in the time it takes me to climax!

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