Why You Should Use Coconut Oil

There are countless lubes out there — and, of course, the option of none at all — to bring your bate from fun to fantastic.

I discovered coconut oil as a bate aid through a friend I met here in NYC. He used it at a bate party with 8 brothers, in the dead of winter, and I only had to dip my hand in once to use it for three hours of bating bliss.

It was an incredible and eye-opening experience, so I started exploring more. Now, you could say, I am a nuts for coconut oil.

Here are some of my own thoughts on why I’ve found it ideal for my dong. Feel free to share your own thoughts or other preferences in the comments. Should I review something else? Let me know … you guys know I’m always happy to try something new when it comes to the bate.

Long-Lasting Feel

I had used a water-based lube for years, because it was a trusted brand and didn’t stain my sheets. However, I found myself dumping huge amounts of lube into my hand to get full coverage over my head, shaft and balls.

What’s more, after 5 – 10 minutes, I would need to reapply, because I found it would start to get dry and uncomfortable with friction. This was especially the case when I was unshaven, with hair on my balls and high up my shaft — ouch!

There is a case for water-based lube, of course; for some it’s an allergen preference, and others like the spit that helps keep the slick going. (Which, yes, is very fun.)

However, I’ve found coconut oil to last much longer — upwards of an hour or more. This allows me to lube up and truly get into my bate, without wondering how long the lube will last or waiting for it to give out.

If it does start to dry up, a quick grab of the stuff (less than a tablespoon) will do the trick to keep you going. I’ve used coconut oil for solo bates, mutual bates, toys and cock pumps, all with great success.

Great for Travel

There is a discretion aspect to coconut oil that is not only convenient … but also super hot.

I travel often for work, and if I am unable to or don’t want to pack lube for myself, coconut oil is incredibly easy to find wherever you end up.

Find any natural food market or bodega with oil options, and you’re bound to find the stuff. There was a time where every week I would stop by a Whole Foods for lunch and get a small individualized package of coconut oil they sold next to the gums and chocolates in the checkout aisle. Bator hack — you get fed, and get your supplies for your post-lunch bate!

Ease of Cleanliness

One of the best benefits of coconut oil is the cleanliness factor.

Similar to my original interest in water-based lube, it does not stain clothes, bedsheets or towels. This is a huge factor when it comes to easier clean-up right afterward, but also great for laundry efficiency and, if you need it, discretion within your household.

What’s more, it’s easy to clean up from other surfaces — such as, say, your computer keyboard when typing up blog posts on bateworld.

Happy bating, brothers.

23 replies
  1. BatorBrian
    BatorBrian says:

    I too started using coconut oil for bating within the past year and doubt I’ll ever go back to anything else. In addition to the reasons you’ve already mentioned, I like the fact that it’s all natural, good for your skin and edible, since I always eat my load after shooting.
    Sometimes I like to fire things up a bit, and adding a few drops of peppermint essential oil will bring your rub to a hot new level and doesn’t change any of the benefits either of us have mentioned… Try it brothers! Enjoy!

  2. selfrewarder
    selfrewarder says:

    I just purchased my first flashlight. I lubed up with coconut oil. It worked very well and clean up of the flashlight interior was easy and left no residue or oily slick. I used warm water and mild dish soap to clean it up. Incidentally, the flesh light was fantastic. It had me cumming in no time. I need to master it so I can edge for hours.

  3. Beefnbearfan
    Beefnbearfan says:

    I’ve noticed there are several types of coconut oil. What do you recommend? I’ve read somewhere else that some types are even unscented?

  4. bus9463
    bus9463 says:

    I use coconut oil exclusively. The best I have ever found is believe it or not at Dollar Tree small jar brand name Butcher Boy Coconut Oil 100% refinded. Its a 7.5oz jar great for traveling. Cost $1.00… yes you heard it right $1.00. Its odorless too. Another reason I like to use it is that is all natural instead of petroleum based like Albolene. Not real keen on using in all the time and absorbing it into my body plus you can have oral sex with no worries of ingesting something nasty like petroleum. Its a winner all the way around… Happy Jacking!

  5. Jr
    Jr says:

    The best lube ever and very inexpensive also. A little goes a long way plus if oral pleasure is involved it can be ingested with no worrirs.

  6. LeatherWolf
    LeatherWolf says:

    Great for increasing sensation in circumcised men and/or ball-shaving men! I discovered coconut oil while searching for a way to get back some of the pleasure lost when they chopped off my foreskin. The hood provides moisture that keeps cockheads sensitive… Cut men’s heads tend to be dry, also somewhat toughened up from fabric abrasion. Tried lots of options, then tried coconut oil on the head, shaft and bag. I apply it with my cock dried off but still slightly moist after a warm shower in the morning and after caressing my goods with a warm, damp cloth in the evening, then rub and stroke the oil in (a pleasurable twice daily thing to treat yourself to) The sensation in my dick was noticeably increased within a few days, and if I slough off and don’t use it, start losing sensation again. Very soon after applying, the coconut scent and taste are gone. It’s great for lubricant on the dick, hands, fingers, and whatever body orifices you enjoy in the nether regions, for any sort of insertive sex, too.

  7. Steve
    Steve says:

    ON my way to Whole Foods right now. Oooops. Better get dressed first. Thanks guys for the great advice. I’m mighty tired of the messy stuff, especially the silicone based ones.

    I’ll report back. Happy bating.

  8. Bayouman2020
    Bayouman2020 says:

    I got a jar. Its rather the consistency of lard but works great when it comes into contact with the warm cock and scrotum. It brings the joy back to wanking my cut prick. Thanks. btw It costs a bit more than $1 but as the old ad said “a little dab’ll do ya”.

  9. ethanmasturs
    ethanmasturs says:

    I started using coconut oil about a year ago and yeah it is awesome!!! Coconut oil lasts a long time compared to most lubes and costs less then most but most of all feels great when I bate

  10. fullmoonma
    fullmoonma says:

    While I use coconut oil for erotic massage, and it’s very good, it’s troublesome to heat it for every bate session. I used to sleep with the bottle but a couple of messy accidents were a detriment. So I switched to olive oil for masturbation – and have 4 oz bottles half full (so it doesn’t spill when the bottle tips over) in every room of the house. It just as good as coconut oil – a half-teaspoon squirt gets me started and a few more drops every 5 or 10 minutes keep my cock slick. I notice my technique responds to the different kinds of slickness, feathery fast strokes when there’s lots of oil, slower deeper strokes as the oil gets absorbed and there’s a little more pull. After a half an hour I’ll put on a squirt of body lotion, and maybe some cortisone ointment to finish a longer set. I also make my own lube – pre-come starts to flow after 8 to 10 minutes/orgasms, but I tend to lick that off rather than leave it on my cock. I’ve noticed that alkaline pre-come can irritate the skin of my cock after 20 minutes or so.

  11. Stephen
    Stephen says:

    I tried using coconut oil after reading about it right here on the bater blog. It’s fantastic. I warm it up and you don’t need to keep adding more. Lasts a very long time. I’m hooked. Thanks guys!

  12. Anonymous
    Anonymous says:

    Coco oil is the best, mostly because it is natural… I was advised to try sesame oil by another bator on this site… works wonders too, though it smells like tahini 🙂

  13. klong23
    klong23 says:

    I have been a life long bator started with lotions ended up with Vaseline then found Albolene that I love so much. I have used coconut oil and I love it too. I tend to use coconut oil when oral is part of the play and is great with a massage too. When in doubt bate with your choice, both coconut oil and Albolene feel great!


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