Anal Stimulation Masturbation Techniques, Part 1

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On Skype, I’m sharing masturbation with my handsome friend who lives in another part of the world, when he grins sheepishly: “Do you mind if I insert my finger?” I tell him, “Of course not, please do!” So adding more lube, he carefully inserts his middle finger into his anus. I see on his face, the intensity of his bliss notch up even higher, as his knuckle stimulates his prostate while his other hand caresses his erection…
Eventually, screaming out and thrashing, this bate buddy shoots his load well over his head onto the wall behind him…

To add anal stimulation to your masturbation is not a requirement for superb masturbation practice. Still, if you haven’t really explored the options “Down Under” in this sense, it’s totally worth a try. Some fellows simply are not wired this way, it seems, but evidently most men can enjoy anal stimulation and prostate massage, either somewhat, or incredibly much.

In real life, entering the anus, with a finger or something a bit larger, to not only enjoy but love it, is not so quick and easy as it usually appears to be in gay porn.

The truth is, your body gets aroused front-to-back, so you really should not even attempt this until you’ve been stimulating your penis and other front parts of your body for at least a half hour or more. Take your time, start on the surface, and you will be rewarded as your body invites you inside.

First, however, there’s the matter of hygiene, aesthetics, and a touch of psychology. Since infancy, when you were potty trained, you’ve probably been conditioned to think of this part of your body as dirty and even forbidden. Well—surprise!—it can be incredibly pleasurable fro most men, and this has nothing necessarily to do with whether you identify yourself as straight, bisexual, gay, or anywhere along that famous spectrum.

Make sure to evacuate your bowels ahead of time, or be sure you have recently. Of course, shower well and clean between those buttocks with a mild soap (such as Ivory) or even soak in a hot tub of bubble bath.

Next, be sure, also, to trim your fingernails short, and carefully file them smooth.

Then, as you consider entry and the quest for the prostate, which can become a powerful pleasure partner with your penis for states of ecstasy you may never have imagined before, court your anus like a sweet new lover that you really, REALLY want to keep on good terms with. Use plenty of lube. Start with your fingertip circling, crossing, dabbing slightly in and out, but not forcing your way inside.

Pay full attention to how this feels; take your time, and the rewards can increase beyond your expectations.

You’ve actually got an external anal sphincter (that powerful ring of muscle that makes it pucker) under voluntary control, and just inside it an even stronger internal ring of muscle that will only relax easily when you really want to be penetrated.

Your body will tell you when it’s ready, so go on and explore with that middle finger!

(CONTINUED in Anal Stimulation Masturbation Techniques, Part 2!)

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    • Anonymous
      Anonymous says:

      This is just a computer translation–not sure it’s very accurate:

      TÉCNICAS DE MASTURACIÓN DE LA ESTIMULACIÓN ANAL, Parte 1
      De Bruce P. Grether

      En Skype, estoy compartiendo masturbación con mi guapo amigo que vive en otra parte del mundo, cuando él sonríe tímidamente: “¿Te importa si inserto mi dedo?” Le digo: “¡Por supuesto que no, por favor!” Así que agregando más lubricante, inserta cuidadosamente su dedo medio en su ano. Veo en su rostro, la intensidad de su instinto de felicidad aún más alto, ya que su nudillo estimula su próstata mientras su otra mano acaricia su erección …
      Finalmente, gritando y golpeando, este bate amigo dispara su carga bien sobre su cabeza en la pared detrás de él …
      Para agregar la estimulación anal a su masturbación no es un requisito para la práctica de masturbación magnífica. Sin embargo, si usted no ha explorado realmente las opciones “Down Under” en este sentido, vale la pena intentarlo. Algunos compañeros simplemente no están cableados de esta manera, al parecer, pero evidentemente la mayoría de los hombres pueden disfrutar de estimulación anal y masaje de próstata, o algo, o increíblemente mucho.
      En la vida real, entrar en el ano, con un dedo o algo un poco más grande, no sólo para disfrutar sino para amarlo, no es tan rápido y fácil como suele aparecer en la pornografía gay. La verdad es que tu cuerpo se excita frente a atrás, por lo que realmente no debería intentarlo hasta que haya estado estimulando su pene y otras partes frontales de su cuerpo durante por lo menos media hora o más. Tome su tiempo, comience en la superficie, y usted será recompensado como su cuerpo le invita adentro.
      En primer lugar, sin embargo, está la cuestión de la higiene, la estética y un toque de psicología. Desde la infancia, cuando eras potty entrenado, probablemente has sido condicionada a pensar en esta parte de tu cuerpo como sucio e incluso prohibido. ¡Bien sorpresa! – puede ser increíblemente placentero para la mayoría de los hombres, y esto no tiene nada que ver necesariamente con si usted se identifica como heterosexual, bisexual, gay, o en cualquier lugar a lo largo de ese famoso espectro.
      Asegúrese de evacuar sus intestinos antes de tiempo, o asegúrese de que ha tenido recientemente. Por supuesto, ducha bien y limpiar entre esas nalgas con un jabón suave (como Ivory) o incluso empapar en una tina caliente de baño de burbujas.
      A continuación, asegúrese, también, de recortar las uñas cortas, y cuidadosamente archivarlas suaves.
      Entonces, a medida que considere la entrada y la búsqueda de la próstata, que puede convertirse en un poderoso socio de placer con su pene para los estados de éxtasis que nunca puede haber imaginado antes, corte su ano como un nuevo amante dulce que realmente, realmente quieren mantener En buenos términos con. Utilice mucho lubricante. Comience con la punta de su dedo dando vueltas, cruzando, dabbing ligeramente en y fuera, pero no forzar su camino dentro.
      Preste toda la atención a cómo se siente; Tomar su tiempo, y las recompensas pueden aumentar más allá de sus expectativas.
      Realmente tienes un esfínter anal externo (ese poderoso anillo de músculo que lo hace pucker) bajo control voluntario, y justo dentro de él un anillo interno aún más fuerte de músculo que solo se relajará fácilmente cuando realmente quieras ser penetrado.
      Su cuerpo le dirá cuando está listo, así que ir y explorar con ese dedo medio!
      (CONTINÚA en la Parte 2, con la búsqueda de la glándula prostática …)

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  1. Burnett
    Burnett says:

    Although I missed this pleasure for years, I now regularly use a prostate massager as part of my masturbation practice. It’s wonderful.

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    • apalmer5
      apalmer5 says:

      OMG me too, I think many of us may have missed it – for any number of reasons. Yep, don’t be afraid to explore the various pleasures anal may give you. And your results may vary from others.

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    • Anonymous
      Anonymous says:

      I use a vibrating egg, covered with a condom, with lots of lube. It really stimulates the prostate. After 10 minutes or so, the pressure on the tip of the penis from masturbating, and the kegels from the stimulation of the love egg synch up, and it feels as if you are fucking your own ass.

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  2. Anonymous
    Anonymous says:

    Yeah I love to have a vibrating dildo up my anal cavity and ram it hard
    I can achieve internal orgasm that will make my toes go numb
    When I get to the prostate just right

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    • Bruce P. Grether
      Bruce P. Grether says:

      Yeah! I like to straighten out my legs and flex my knees while stimulating my prostate with my middle finger inserted in my anus while I also stimulate my penis in the bathtub…

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  3. apalmer5
    apalmer5 says:

    Although it’s been quite sometime since I’ve ventured “up there” I still remember reading/hearing all the comments & recommendations for doing some anal exploration. Timid I really wasn’t sure how nor where my prostate is exactly nor what to do with “it” when I found it. So after some initial fingering & probing I really didn’t understand what was so amazing about anal. You really need to relax & just let yourself go and be/feel open about it,

    I really only had 1 amazing experience, I was masturbating (yes work front to back) and then slipped a finger upside my anus and I must have (finally) hit my prostate just right – as I exploded with an ejaculation that was very pleasant and intense but without my usual orgasm. Was so unusual and I was still fully erect so I just kept masturbating until I came again & this time with my usual climax (and ejaculation).

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    • Bruce P. Grether
      Bruce P. Grether says:

      Different guys have different preferences and a variety of particular favorite ways to enjoy, of course! Anal play was never a big favorite of mine until–as you say–I learned to relax into it. I’m still shamelessly penis-centric, but I also love all my parts, balls, perineum, anus,prostate, nips, toes-head. It’s ALL good to explore and invite every part of your anatomy a chance to participate in the bliss…

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