The Batemaster answers reader questions about masturbation and topics related to men’s sexual well-being.

Ask The BateMaster: Direct Prostate Stimulation

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How Can I Stretch My Hole Safely?

QUESTION: I have a very tight asshole. I finger it and can slip small objects in to use as a dildo. But I can’t get anything bigger inside. I’m afraid to force anything bigger in and tear something. How can I safely stretch my hole? I use lube… any suggestions???
 
RESPONSE: As you’ve learned, anal insertion isn’t as easy as it looks in most of the porn videos, where in reality the guys
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Ask The Batemaster: Pre-cum

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The Lowdown on Cowper’s Gland Fluid

QUESTION: I’m a huge pre-cum fan, and it makes a great natural lube. But I don’t ooze a lot of it, and not all that often. What causes different guys to pre-cum more or less? Is there any way to increase the amount of pre-cum I ooze?
 
RESPONSE: The truth is that there’s a wide range of how much pre-cum guys ooze while aroused and masturbating, from none ever, to almost a constant fountain for a small number of men. The difference seems to be mostly genetic; however,
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Ask The Batemaster: Masturbation And Food Cravings

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How to Handle The Post-Bate Munchies

Question: When I finish bating, I have a sudden craving for chocolate. Is it normal to crave something after finishing?
 
Response: Part of my mission to encourage male masturbators is to urge you to consider your self-pleasure as part of a healthy practice of trying to love yourself better and better every day.
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Ask The Batemaster: Assturbation And Tightness

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Assturbation With A Tight Anus

Question: I have a very tight asshole. I finger it and can slip small objects into it for use as a dildo. But I can’t get anything bigger inside. I’m afraid to force anything bigger in and tear something. How can I safely stretch my hole? I use lube… any suggestions???
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Ask The Batemaster: Lube, Dry Skin and Porn

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To Lube or Not to Lube?

QUESTION:I typically masturbate without lube or lotion because I sit at the computer to chat, flip through porn, or have phone sex. I am worried that my penis is getting damaged due to dry skin, but I don’t want to get my computer/phone covered in lube. Any thoughts on this?