The Batemaster answers reader questions about masturbation and topics related to men’s sexual well-being.

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Ask The Batemaster: I Have Orgasms, But I Don't Ejaculate

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QUESTION: After prostate surgery, I’m lucky. I don’t ejaculate,…
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Ask The Batemaster: Showing Face & Shaving Pubes

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QUESTION: I love Bateworld! The whole thing is just totally magical…
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Ask The Batemaster: Caught Masturbating With A Peach...By My Dad

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QUESTION: In the kitchen, I did that thing with a ripe peach that I saw a young dude do in a movie. It really worked, only my father tapped me on the shoulder from behind just as I was coming inside that juicy piece of fruit. He only grinned and said, “Be sure to clean up the mess, Junior.” See, I moved back home after school, because my job is fast food at night and both my folks work. Usually I’m home alone afternoons, but dad came home on a break from his job. I’m so embarrassed, I might have to move out! Help!
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Ask The Batemaster: I'm 23 And Like Older Guys (50+)

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Love to cyber with guys I find here and sometimes other places, but really only with older guys, like at least 50 or 60. Thing is, I’m 23 myself.
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Ask The Batemaster: I Jacked Off On The Bus

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...thought I could get away with it, whipped out my hardon and…
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Ask The Batemaster: Meditation & Solosex Magick

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So much energy and time goes into my bate. How can I incorporate meditation and sexual magick into my masturbation for positive life outcomes? Are there techniques or rituals you recommend?
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Ask The Batemaster: Cyberbating VS. Real Life

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It’s a shame to have to beat off alone all the time. To share the experience gives it a whole new meaning and a whole new outcome. But how can I really achieve that in person, in the flesh, with real meaning and feeling?
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Ask The Batemaster: Bating With A Married Guy

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At this big company where I work, there’s this handsome guy with a little dark beard, who I don’t really know. For the third time, I’m in the restroom and at the urinal he “shows hard,” so we go in a stall and jack each other to incredible orgasms. Now I’ve snooped a little and found out he’s married, with one little kid and another on the way. Is it wrong to do it again, now that I know about his family?
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Ask The Batemaster: Prolonged Masturbation (AKA Edging)

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Is edging dangerous? I like to go several days without cumming and enjoy bating for an hour or more at a time. Is it unhealthy to build up cum without releasing it?
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Ask The Batemaster: Roommates

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We jack together often, do mutual, even some frotting cock2cock, and kissing. But he won’t suck, says that’s too gay. What do I do?
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Ask The Batemaster: I Masturbate To Myself, A Lot

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I get off on getting off, but I’m basically getting off to myself, if you think about it. Is this some form of narcissism? Where does the line blur?
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Ask The Batemaster: I Saw My Brothers Bateworld Profile

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My brother left his laptop open and I saw his Bateworld profile:…