QUESTION: My older friend and I (he’s early 50s, I’m just 22) like to role play as daddy and son. We’re not really related. This involves tighty-whities and dark dress socks. He catches me jerking-off, he teaches me how to do it better. Sometimes he spanks me for being naughty, or for thinking about someone else. It’s so hot and we both end up shooting huge loads after hours of this. But I wonder if it’s twisted. Is it too much like real incest?
RESPONSE: Fantasy cannot hurt, and role-playing, so long as no one gets physically harmed or emotionally disturbed, may in fact be a healthy thing. This game you two play skirts some of the taboo subjects on Bateworld, such as family relations and intergenerational stuff. TO be honest, it’s the kind of situation that a lot of guys wonder about, imagine and fantasize about. Guys tell me all sorts of stories, and many of them I cannot specifically mention to anyone here, much less advocate.
At the same time, personal behavior IS personal, and really much of it should never be subject to the judgment of anyone else. So long as you know that no one is being harmed, if your games are consensual and fun and exciting, it’s nobody else’s business what kind of games you play. It may even be a healthy enactment of situations that would be questionable, if they were more actual.
This also brings up the subject of fetishes, which by definition are usually the requirement for certain objects or situations to enhance interest and arousal. There is nothing wrong, for example, with appreciating it when an otherwise naked guy wears socks, even a certain kind of socks, or underwear, or a certain variety of underwear, or glasses. Other variations on clothing or partial clothing fetishes, from shirt-cocking, which is being naked below the waist only, to bating or having sex fully dressed, except for an open fly, can be spicy and fun.
Quite a few fellows find certain kinds of uniforms exciting, or formal dress like a tux with pants down, erection glistening and exuding a diamond droplet of precum at the tip. Some guys favor boots, and boot play, such as carefully stepping on someone’s face (be careful now! NO damage, please), or even female or confusing garb. A recent video on Facebook featured guys playing volleyball in female volleyball uniforms, which was not my own cup of tea, but if someone really likes that, it’s totally cool! Actually, those tiny bikini-bottoms disappearing between muscular male glutes was sort of nice… the bikini tops on guys, was less thrilling to me.
So seriously, the daddy and son scenario for role-playing can’t hurt, while I cannot advocate the real thing (partly just for legal reasons). Of course, there are all sorts of other fun games, such as doctor’s office physical exams: “Don’t worry, sonny, it’s not unusual to get an erection at such a time! Don’t be embarrassed…” (Or maybe you’re supposed to be?)
You may want to pretend you’re camping, or really go camping and mess around in the tent or play sleep-over at a school buddy’s house. How about island castaways with tattered clothing? Or Adam and Steve in the Garden of Eden?
If it floats your boat, go for it, have a delicious cruise, and shoot huge loads!
BRUCE P. GRETHER is the “BateMaster”. Mr. Grether’s lifelong love of penises and masturbation has led him to achieve a level of mastery and understanding of masturbation that is at once unique and extremely rare. He is renowned for both his ability to achieve seemingly endless states of prolonged and intense masturbatory pleasure as well as his skill in passing this knowledge on to his students. Mr. Grether has made it his life’s mission to encourage men to take their practice of masturbation to new levels of personal enrichment and self-discovery.
Mr. Grether is a globally recognized masturbation activist, an accomplished masturbation coach, and a tireless facilitator of masturbation workshops. In 2001 he coined the now popular term “Mindful Masturbation”. He is the author of a best-selling book, The Secret of the Golden Phallus, plus the erotic fantasy novels The Moontusk Chronicles. His website can be found at www.eroticengineering.com.
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Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.<