Bate Facts

Your nipples may be on the lower end of the spectrum of sensitivity, but given attention and devotion, you can develop more and possibly a lot more sensitivity from them. QUESTION: I see how lots…

My “straight” bud and I have a kind of real bromance going, and do an awful lot of stuff together, but…   QUESTION: My “straight” bud and I have a kind of real bromance going,…

I’m still struggling with the urge to ejaculate after maybe just 10 or 15 minutes of stroking, at most. QUESTION: I’m still struggling with the urge to ejaculate after maybe just 10 or 15 minutes…

The same things don’t work for every man, and though the basic essence of what male masturbation is about is something truly universal to most men, everyone is also individual.   QUESTION: Now, what I…

“Golden Eggs? A Big Deal?” QUESTION: My housemate often comes into my room in the middle of the night and we masturbate each other in the dark without saying anything. In the daytime, he won’t…

Generally, as a rule of thumb (+ other thumb, all fingers, and both rosy palms!), the more lube the better. QUESTION: I used to love Albolene for jerking off, but you converted me to coconut…

Consider whether anyone or you yourself are harmed or beset by guilt about it. QUESTION: I have really hot fantasies, which are nothing truly violent, though I don’t think they’re entirely legal. For sure, it’s…

…Respect how someone wants to be seen, and how they view themselves. QUESTION: I met a really handsome bearded guy in a chat room, and we agreed to masturbate on cam. After a while, when…

A follow up to the original post about the “Million Dollar Point” QUESTION: Bruce, I’m not sure I understand your blog about the Million Dollar Point! I love to rub my perineum and press pretty…

We learn from experience, however, that everyone who looks hot to us is not necessarily a person we really like much, if we get to know them. QUESTION: I was raised by a single mom…

Men who master “edging” know how the practice can enhance masturbation pleasure. QUESTION: I read about this thing called the “Million Dollar Point,” a place you can press hard, right between your balls and your…

Mindful Masturbation can improve self-esteem…I suggest a classic “Love Yourself” mirror exercise. QUESTION: In my late teens I suffered a serious sexual trauma. I won’t give details, not to be a bummer, and I’m not…