Bate Facts
Ask The Batemaster: Breathing & The Bate
Breathe slowly and deeply, as tools in your kit of masturbation skills and tactics. QUESTION: You often talk about deep breathing and the bate. I mean, I know breathing keeps us alive, right? But can…
Ask The Batemaster: I Saw My Roomate On Cam (Now I Want To Join!)
He still doesn’t know I watched that… but how can I tell him? Do I dare ask if he’ll let me join? QUESTION: I’ve got several roomies. One I have a special crush on. I…
Ask The Batemaster: The Importance of Being Lubed
To protect and increase sensation QUESTION: I’m a man in my seventies and I’ve always masturbated a lot. But often I’ve had a raw spot on my penis, even painful, and sometimes on my balls….
Ask The Batemaster: Monkeypox and Masturbation
“You need not live in fear of any infectious disease if you inform yourself and take sensible precautions.” QUESTION: I’ve heard some scary things about monkeypox lately. Some gay guys are getting it, but…
Ask The Batemaster: How Can Bating Be Spiritual?
“Spiritual practices tend to be individual exploration of your own direct experience…” QUESTION: Don’t get me wrong: I love to bate! Only it’s gotta be a sin if anything is! Depravity and perversion are part…
Ask The Batemaster: Ejaculation Volume and Distance
There is no magic fix […] but there are some things you can do. QUESTION: I’d like to shoot farther and shoot much bigger loads when I do. How? RESPONSE: This is a common concern…
Ask The Batemaster: Frenulum Sensitivity
So long as you get pleasure from your penis… QUESTION: Some guys seem so sensitive on their frenulum at the underside of their penis head that it drives them wild! Mine doesn’t seem to be….
Ask The Batemaster: I Have A Fetish For Guys In Glasses
“Yes, this preference for a certain kind of arousing stimulus probably is what I would call a “fetish,” but not in any negative way.” QUESTION: I’ve got a “guys with specs” fetish, I guess. It’s…
Ask The Batemaster: Porn & Mindful Masturbation
“Mindfulness is about nothing more than intense alertness, being really present in the moment where you are and in your own body. Keeping focus on yourself.” QUESTION: You sometimes say that using a lot of…
Ask The Batemaster: It’s Not A Gay Thing, It’s A Guy Thing
“To pressure this guy at all might very well backfire, though I agree with you that men masturbating together is not necessarily a gay thing.” QUESTION: I’ve got a super-hot roomie who often bates in…
Ask The Batemaster: Why Does He Need An Audience?
“My boyfriend has trouble getting off with me, but has no trouble staying hard and blowing his wad when our bate buddies are involved…” QUESTION: My boyfriend and I love to bate together, as…
Ask The Batemaster: My Imagination Seems Better
There is nothing weird about what you say, that imagining a celebrity guy’s penis might be better than seeing the actual thing. QUESTION: Saw your blog about the penis-obsessed guy. Well, I always look closely…
