Your reaction sounds honest and natural, but only you can decide if it’s really okay. QUESTION: My brother is really cute, and I found out he did some gay porn to help pay for his college tuition, in fact he told me where I can find his bate chat room. Don’t worry, we’re both adults. […]
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About Bruce P. Grether
BRUCE P. GRETHER from an early age has always loved penises and masturbation. His personal breakthrough to prolong and intensify masturbatory pleasure indefinitely inspired his Mission to encourage men to take their practice to new levels. In 2001 he coined the term “Mindful Masturbation.” His global activism has been online, in
workshops, and he is the author of a best-selling book THE SECRET OF THE GOLDEN PHALLUS, plus his erotic fantasy novels THE MOONTUSK CHRONICLES.
His FREE coaching site is http://www.eroticengineering.com
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…thought I could get away with it, whipped out my hardon and started stroking. QUESTION: Riding home on a city bus late at night, just a few people on board. This really handsome guy was dozing nearby. I got hard, (I’m 19, you see?) thought I could get away with it, whipped out my hardon and […]
Lets compare cocks shall we?
QUESTION: I’m pretty decent-sized down South, almost 7 inches. A bit over 5 inches around at the thickest part of the shaft. Am I really big enough in the penis department? Is there something I can do? What can I do when I see really horse-hung guys online, and feel like a shrimp? I’m past twenty, but my body still grows a bit in spurts.
RESPONSE: Consider this carefully, because almost every man on Earth is in the same situation: Some men’s penises will be a bit smaller than yours, some a bit larger. But examined very closely, your penis is never exactly the same size—it’s always changing at least on the micro-scale, it’s expanding or contracting.
Many men in today’s world (sometimes myself included) enjoy masturbating to porn on the Internet, which can prove highly arousing and provide great bate fuel. In my opinion, porn is sacred, as it shares an extremely important part of our lives that most mainstream cultures still frown upon and often seek to keep hidden.
Sometimes when I ejaculate in the presence of another man or men, my screams and shouts of ecstatic release with the orgasm are so loud that I’ve actually frightened a few guys! And even when I choose not to ejaculate, I can groan and growl alarmingly
One important way that you can increase your masturbatory pleasure many times over is to break the sound barrier—maybe not in the way this sounds at first! Give yourself total permission to groan, growl, and even shout out your enjoyment, your pleasure, your ecstasy as you masturbate!
My handsome friend in South America masturbates with me on Skype, moaning, gasping, his head rolls back and forth; he pauses, as if stunned, and moves his hands away from the meaty pillar of his penis in the foreground of my view. Then his head falls back in a look of beatitude, like some kind of saint in ecstasy, as his body twitches and writhes in place, his thighs vibrate.
So the second part of this practice to experience dry orgasms and possibly multiple male orgasms, come when you are masturbating. This is a challenge of fine-tuning, and not so much a feat of obsessive control, as of paying really, really close attention to your level of arousal, and then using your ability to relax that pee-stopper muscle at just the right moment. This can reward you beyond your wildest dreams!
How would you like to have as many orgasms as you want without having to wait to get over the after-effects of a full-blown ejaculation?
I’m in a hot bubble bath, using a great foaming product that doesn’t have strong chemical fragrance or any irritants to the sensitive opening at the tip of my fully engorged penis. The strokes on my erection are slick and wet, while under the water I’ve gently yet firmly inserted my middle finger into my anus. Within the silky inner wall of my rectum, my finger encounters a distinct bulge that I begin to slowly press and rub with spectacular results: glorious storms of sensation; nearly intolerable bliss…
On Skype, I’m sharing masturbation with my handsome friend who lives in another part of the world, when he grins sheepishly: “Do you mind if I insert my finger?” I tell him, “Of course not, please do!” So adding more lube, he carefully inserts his middle finger into his anus. I see on his face, the intensity of his bliss notch up even higher, as his knuckle stimulates his prostate while his other hand caresses his erection…
One of the most important things you can do to enhance the quality of your erections, as well as improve control over the urge to ejaculate while you are edging, is to do perineum clenches, or Kegel Exercsies.