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Posted on: | June 30, 2023 |
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The most amazing thing in the world to me is to see a man’s face while he’s getting close, and to watch his orgasm face AKA O face. Even his cock is not more exciting than this, for me! So, when a guy’s face isn’t shown, I’m disappointed, not turned on. So, I’ll only come with guys who show their face the whole time. How unusual am I in this fetish?
Personally, I can relate to what you say, in that I find a man’s facial expressions and the sounds he makes—so long as he is not the silent type!—at least as exciting as seeing his body and his penis during his ecstasy and release. I’m not sure I’d say that the face is always more exciting than the rest of the man and his activities for me, but I’m in the same boat in that I am not nearly so interested when his face is not shown.
I’m not even sure this qualifies as a fetish, which means a situation, condition or object strongly associated with your arousal. Possibly. At any rate, I cannot be sure how many people share your prioritizing of a man’s facial expressions, but I’m sure there are plenty. I’ve even seen collections of photos and collections of videos that exclusively show men’s faces during erotic stimulation and orgasm. Perhaps you have as well, and these images should not be too difficult to locate.
Though I do understand many reasons why so many men who share photos and videos on BateWorld still keep their faces hidden, such images that feature just genitalia or headless bodies are far less interesting and arousing in the erotic sense to me. Even with porn, which is something I seldom look at, when the focus and editing doesn’t include the face for too long, I begin to lose interest.
Many men may have legitimate concerns around trouble with their jobs and families if people see their genitalia in identifiable images or witness them masturbating where they can be identified. However, in a context of many other sites for explicit sharing, most people who see the images want to see them. Another factor that is also quite uncertain is how much of this kind of inhibition is simply internalized fear about anti-sexual and anti-body bias. Who can say?
At any rate, one reason you appreciate so much seeing men’s faces in these situations of arousal and release is probably because it is not only a purely physical, anatomical matter, but one that involves powerful sensations, strong feelings, and even profound emotions.
Whether or not your preference can be called a fetish, there is nothing unusual or in any way strange about you and this aspect of you. I’m not so different from you in this realm, myself.
A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at BateWorld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.
Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.
Ask The Batemaster: Cocks Without A Face
The most amazing thing in the world to me is to see a man’s face while he’s getting close, and to watch his orgasm face AKA O face. Even his cock is not more exciting than this, for me! So, when a guy’s face isn’t shown, I’m disappointed, not turned on. So, I’ll only come with guys who show their face the whole time. How unusual am I in this fetish?
Personally, I can relate to what you say, in that I find a man’s facial expressions and the sounds he makes—so long as he is not the silent type!—at least as exciting as seeing his body and his penis during his ecstasy and release. I’m not sure I’d say that the face is always more exciting than the rest of the man and his activities for me, but I’m in the same boat in that I am not nearly so interested when his face is not shown.
I’m not even sure this qualifies as a fetish, which means a situation, condition or object strongly associated with your arousal. Possibly. At any rate, I cannot be sure how many people share your prioritizing of a man’s facial expressions, but I’m sure there are plenty. I’ve even seen collections of photos and collections of videos that exclusively show men’s faces during erotic stimulation and orgasm. Perhaps you have as well, and these images should not be too difficult to locate.
Though I do understand many reasons why so many men who share photos and videos on BateWorld still keep their faces hidden, such images that feature just genitalia or headless bodies are far less interesting and arousing in the erotic sense to me. Even with porn, which is something I seldom look at, when the focus and editing doesn’t include the face for too long, I begin to lose interest.
Many men may have legitimate concerns around trouble with their jobs and families if people see their genitalia in identifiable images or witness them masturbating where they can be identified. However, in a context of many other sites for explicit sharing, most people who see the images want to see them. Another factor that is also quite uncertain is how much of this kind of inhibition is simply internalized fear about anti-sexual and anti-body bias. Who can say?
At any rate, one reason you appreciate so much seeing men’s faces in these situations of arousal and release is probably because it is not only a purely physical, anatomical matter, but one that involves powerful sensations, strong feelings, and even profound emotions.
Whether or not your preference can be called a fetish, there is nothing unusual or in any way strange about you and this aspect of you. I’m not so different from you in this realm, myself.
A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at BateWorld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.
Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.
Ask The Batemaster: Cocks Without A Face
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I too like to see a man’s face when having an orgasm but mostly in person. In person to me it is another form of connection with the man to look in his eyes and see the beautiful expressions of bliss and share the pleasure of his orgasm with him and understanding exactly what he is experiencing. I just like looking into each others eyes as he or we are having our orgasm. That’s not to say that I don’t like watching him actually cum, I do but the facial connection. is special.
I always find “full-body” masturbation videos more arousing than just watching some guys hand work his dick. I want to see his facial expressions as well. Basically, I want the whole experience. This applies to female solo videos as well. Seeing how a person appreciates their body is the best.