Ask The Batemaster
Ask The Batemaster: How To Avoid Body-Shaming
“It never helps to compare yourself with others, especially in the department of appearance […] This is an extremely common trap the ego falls into.” QUESTION: Sites like Facebook, gay men’s pages, and a lot…
Ask The Batemaster: I’d Love A Three-Way Bate
“That’s my fantasy! Doesn’t it sound hot?” QUESTION: I’ve got these two great bate buddies, and they both love doing it with me. But so far, they won’t do a 3-way with all 3 of…
Ask The Batemaster: Fully Vaccinated Bate Weekend, Safe or Not?
Vaccination Masturbation QUESTION: I’m afraid of catching COVID, even though I’m fully vaccinated. Seems there’s a lot of unknowns. I want to go to an in-person bate weekend, but I’m not sure. Do you think…
Ask The Batemaster: Is The Bate Anti-Social?
“The idea that masturbation is anti-social […] is just part of outdated anti-masturbation campaigns that linger from the last few centuries.” QUESTION: I do it with bate buds and in groups! To me, bating is…
Ask The Batemaster: Virginity And The Bate
“You’re a virgin who just masturbates” (Yes, that is a play on the famous line from Clueless by our beloved Brittany Murphy. RIP.) QUESTION: I know what really turns me on, so I know I’m…
Ask The Batemaster: French Kissing & Nip Pinching
“Some men consider the tongue as a sort of “upper penis” for it is extremely sensitive!” QUESTION: I’ve got some great bate buddies, which is a huge blessing in my life! But unless they will…
Ask The Batemaster: Ejaculation Control
“I’m not sure we completely control anything, but we can develop greater skill at navigating our experience!” QUESTION: In the past, when I was with someone sexually, I got so excited it was hard not…
Ask The Batemaster: Dry Stroking
There are no absolutes, no rules in male masturbation, except according to me: “Never hurt yourself, or hurt anyone else.” QUESTION: I know you say it’s always good to stroke with lube, and reasons why….
Ask The Batemaster: Bush Lover
Grooming of the male body seems to move in cycles of various fashions. QUESTION: I love to see how hairy some guys’ bodies are, which has always turned me on! Especially a nice pubic bush—I…
Ask The Batemaster: Living With Religious Parents
“…You have evidently given yourself permission to enjoy pleasuring yourself, which is great, in itself!” QUESTION: I’m in my early 30s and still live with my loving parents, who are very religious. I masturbate a…
Ask The Batemaster: Bate Buddy Jealousy
If this man is truly your best friend, his happiness must be at least as important as your own. QUESTION: My best friend and I love to masturbate together, and we do this a…
Ask The Batemaster: Am I Asexual?
“There is absolutely nothing wrong with being asexual, if that is truly what is going on with you.” QUESTION: Am I asexual? I only masturbate once every week or two, and sex is not…
