Ask The Batemaster
Ask The Batemaster: Bate Tips From My Brother
“My older brother […] is a big fan of yours and gives me detailed tips on “how to!” Is this okay, in your opinion?” QUESTION: I gotta say right off that nothing illegal happened and…
Ask The Batemater: Masturbation, Vivid Dreams, and a Novel Series
Masturbation, Vivid Dreams, and a Novel Series QUESTION: In one blog, Bruce, you talked about reading and about characters in books that masturbate. Can you tell a little about the ones in your own books…
Ask The Batemaster: Real Bator Pride
Why do so many guys just not “get” that bating is so incredible and even profound? QUESTION: Lots of guys put down bating, like it’s just a joke, a stupid thing to do. Or even…
Ask The Batemaster: A New Bator Each Time
I love to cam with guys and bating online is important to me. But I’m always looking for someone new… QUESTION: I love to cam with guys and bating online is important to me. But…
Ask The Batemaster: My Dick Pics (With Face) Leaked Online!
I’m desperate to get them taken down! QUESTION: I sent a guy some dick pix of myself on my phone, ones that also show my face. He promised not to share them. Now I’ve seen…
Ask The Batemaster: Masturbation In Literature
“What Gives About the Bate in Books?” QUESTION: Maybe I’m weird, but I still love to read fiction, more than I watch TV or films. But most guys in books don’t seem to masturbate, at…
Ask The Batemaster: The Bator Closet (An XXXmas Special)
“Is the Bator Closet So Different?” QUESTION: I told my family I’m gay, and they were okay with that. Said they love me anyway, no matter what. Great! But then I told them over Thanksgiving…
Ask the Batemaster: The Holiday Season Phallus
Honor your erection as a Sacred Tree that helps to hold up the sky and returns the light to your life to you whenever you masturbate! *Featured image courtesy of Daily Mail QUESTION: I’ve sometimes…
Ask The Batemaster: Phallus Worship & Religion
“[…] Your beliefs and practices are not really anyone else’s business.” QUESTION: I love phallus worship, or at least the idea of it, I guess. Only some guys seem to do it with a Satanic…
Ask The Batemaster: Shame After Cumming
“…You are well on your way to liberation from such guilt and shame simply by being aware of it.” QUESTION: My family is not religious or conservative. But I still feel some guilt or shame…
Ask The Batemaster: How To Avoid Body-Shaming
“It never helps to compare yourself with others, especially in the department of appearance […] This is an extremely common trap the ego falls into.” QUESTION: Sites like Facebook, gay men’s pages, and a lot…
Ask The Batemaster: I’d Love A Three-Way Bate
“That’s my fantasy! Doesn’t it sound hot?” QUESTION: I’ve got these two great bate buddies, and they both love doing it with me. But so far, they won’t do a 3-way with all 3 of…
