Ask The Batemaster

QUESTION: I’m healthy, in my 50s, and a mindful masturbator, so I don’t use porn a lot. But sometimes my erection doesn’t get very hard, even on cam with a hot bate bud. Not too…

QUESTION: Do sperm travel up your “vas deferens” when you edge, or only when you ejaculate? RESPONSE:  Thanks for asking, as it is quite a common misconception among men that sperm cells, and possibly even…

I’m sure it is common to most office situations with male workers. It is certainly not wrong morally!   QUESTION: Since returning to the office after restrictions have been eased, I’ve been hearing guys masturbate…

I love self-pleasuring but also into cages. Can you unite being a bator and being caged? QUESTION: I always had problems with my masculinity below my waist. I wanted to shut myself up with a…

Breathe slowly and deeply, as tools in your kit of masturbation skills and tactics. QUESTION: You often talk about deep breathing and the bate. I mean, I know breathing keeps us alive, right? But can…

He still doesn’t know I watched that… but how can I tell him? Do I dare ask if he’ll let me join? QUESTION: I’ve got several roomies. One I have a special crush on. I…

To protect and increase sensation QUESTION: I’m a man in my seventies and I’ve always masturbated a lot. But often I’ve had a raw spot on my penis, even painful, and sometimes on my balls….

“You need not live in fear of any infectious disease if you inform yourself and take sensible precautions.”    QUESTION: I’ve heard some scary things about monkeypox lately. Some gay guys are getting it, but…

“Spiritual practices tend to be individual exploration of your own direct experience…” QUESTION: Don’t get me wrong: I love to bate! Only it’s gotta be a sin if anything is! Depravity and perversion are part…

There is no magic fix […] but there are some things you can do. QUESTION: I’d like to shoot farther and shoot much bigger loads when I do. How? RESPONSE: This is a common concern…

So long as you get pleasure from your penis… QUESTION: Some guys seem so sensitive on their frenulum at the underside of their penis head that it drives them wild! Mine doesn’t seem to be….

“Yes, this preference for a certain kind of arousing stimulus probably is what I would call a “fetish,” but not in any negative way.” QUESTION: I’ve got a “guys with specs” fetish, I guess. It’s…