Ask The Batemaster: I Have A Fetish For Guys In Glasses
 | The Batemaster (Bruce P. Grether) |
| Posted on: | July 15, 2022 |
| Categorized: | Ask The Batemaster |
“Yes, this preference for a certain kind of arousing stimulus probably is what I would call a “fetish,” but not in any negative way.”
QUESTION:
I’ve got a “guys with specs” fetish, I guess. It’s not required but seeing men wearing glasses masturbate gets me off totally! The nerdy sexual animal, maybe? Is this a real fetish? Is it good? Is it only okay? Or could it be bad?
RESPONSE:
I’ve written about various fetishes before, and they are generally either specific kinds of images, or scenarios that someone finds especially exciting sexually, or even necessary for arousal and orgasm.
Yes, this preference for a certain kind of arousing stimulus probably is what I would call a “fetish,” but not in any negative way, so long as it is not extreme. If you absolutely required men to wear glasses while masturbating for your own arousal or climax, it could prove limiting. Please do not judge yourself in any way for this.
Be aware that it is beneficial to enjoy a variety of other “styles of imagery” or “situations” that may also excite you.
The combination of how glasses are considered to make someone appear “intelligent” or even “scholarly” (what you call “nerdy”) combined with the rampant male arousal of a masturbator may prove an especially enjoyable combo for quite a few men.
This image and scenario are not terribly uncommon, and yet it is also not terribly common, so you may need to do some searching or make special arrangements for this particular form of stimulation. You already know this, I am sure, and probably consider the effort totally worth it!
At the same time, some honest self-awareness around this issue is a good idea. It is healthy not to close your mind to other arousing images and situations that you may enjoy. When you say, “it is not required,” this sounds reasonable.
I also encourage you to put some energy into enjoying those other options, as well.
A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.
Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.
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“Yes, this preference for a certain kind of arousing stimulus probably is what I would call a “fetish,” but not in any negative way.”
QUESTION:
I’ve got a “guys with specs” fetish, I guess. It’s not required but seeing men wearing glasses masturbate gets me off totally! The nerdy sexual animal, maybe? Is this a real fetish? Is it good? Is it only okay? Or could it be bad?
RESPONSE:
I’ve written about various fetishes before, and they are generally either specific kinds of images, or scenarios that someone finds especially exciting sexually, or even necessary for arousal and orgasm.
Yes, this preference for a certain kind of arousing stimulus probably is what I would call a “fetish,” but not in any negative way, so long as it is not extreme. If you absolutely required men to wear glasses while masturbating for your own arousal or climax, it could prove limiting. Please do not judge yourself in any way for this.
Be aware that it is beneficial to enjoy a variety of other “styles of imagery” or “situations” that may also excite you.
The combination of how glasses are considered to make someone appear “intelligent” or even “scholarly” (what you call “nerdy”) combined with the rampant male arousal of a masturbator may prove an especially enjoyable combo for quite a few men.
This image and scenario are not terribly uncommon, and yet it is also not terribly common, so you may need to do some searching or make special arrangements for this particular form of stimulation. You already know this, I am sure, and probably consider the effort totally worth it!
At the same time, some honest self-awareness around this issue is a good idea. It is healthy not to close your mind to other arousing images and situations that you may enjoy. When you say, “it is not required,” this sounds reasonable.
I also encourage you to put some energy into enjoying those other options, as well.
A note from The Batemaster: I’m honored that the guys at Bateworld have asked me to respond to some questions from male masturbators around the world every week.
Always check with your doctor about any issues you might be experiencing with your sexual organs. Prompt diagnosis and treatment are important. This article’s purpose is to inform and entertain readers and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment.
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I’m a bator who wears glasses. 😉
I have a glasses fetish, myself. In fact, one of my close, long-time jack/fuck buds wears glasses and when we’re having sex, I reach over and grab his glasses and ask, “Do you mind putting these back on?” He half laughs with a “God, you’re messed up” response.