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“There are all sorts of subtle nuances to masturbatory pleasure, which involve pressure, tempos, particular strokes, the right touch, even fetishes and other aspects of arousal.” QUESTION: I’m in University and my roomies all love…

QUESTION: I’m always amazed how porn usually ends right after the guys shoot their loads. Sometimes they are still spurting! It always seems awfully abrupt to me. I love to see dicks get soft, to…

QUESTION: My best buddy is kind of versatile like me, only he also likes standard gay porn a lot. All I really want to see is guys JO, not even other gay sex. I like…

QUESTION: When you talk about “dry orgasms” sometimes I also hear you mention a continuous orgasmic state. Sounds incredible! What is that really? How can I get there? RESPONSE: Thank you for your questions. This…

“Edging Skills Are Not Easy For Me!” QUESTION: I’m working hard and practicing to become better at edging, even to masturbate mindfully. But I still ejaculate too easily, too soon, mainly because it just feels…

QUESTION: I get turned on and jack off almost exclusively to images of shirtless men: bare chests, pecs, nips, abs, ribcages, and hairy pits. I like a treasure trail, but where it leads is less…

QUESTION: I’m in a bit of a dilemma. My partner is a light sleeper. He sleeps late and I wake early. When I stroke my morning wood in our bed as quietly as possible, it…

Neuroplasticity makes it possible to weave new nerve pathways into your nervous system and brain. QUESTION: You sometimes use long, fancy words, Bruce! Can you tell me in simple, clear terms what “neuroplasticity” really means?…

Multiple ejaculation is simply a matter of abundant erotic energy generated within you… QUESTION: Maybe it’s because I’m still in my 20s. I can get so excited during my sessions that I experience multiple ejaculation,…

QUESTION: I’m healthy, in my 50s, and a mindful masturbator, so I don’t use porn a lot. But sometimes my erection doesn’t get very hard, even on cam with a hot bate bud. Not too…

QUESTION: Do sperm travel up your “vas deferens” when you edge, or only when you ejaculate? RESPONSE:  Thanks for asking, as it is quite a common misconception among men that sperm cells, and possibly even…

I’m sure it is common to most office situations with male workers. It is certainly not wrong morally!   QUESTION: Since returning to the office after restrictions have been eased, I’ve been hearing guys masturbate…