Ask The Batemaster

“Edging Skills Are Not Easy For Me!” QUESTION: I’m working hard and practicing to become better at edging, even to masturbate mindfully. But I still ejaculate too easily, too soon, mainly because it just feels…

QUESTION: I get turned on and jack off almost exclusively to images of shirtless men: bare chests, pecs, nips, abs, ribcages, and hairy pits. I like a treasure trail, but where it leads is less…

QUESTION: I’m in a bit of a dilemma. My partner is a light sleeper. He sleeps late and I wake early. When I stroke my morning wood in our bed as quietly as possible, it…

Neuroplasticity makes it possible to weave new nerve pathways into your nervous system and brain. QUESTION: You sometimes use long, fancy words, Bruce! Can you tell me in simple, clear terms what “neuroplasticity” really means?…

Multiple ejaculation is simply a matter of abundant erotic energy generated within you… QUESTION: Maybe it’s because I’m still in my 20s. I can get so excited during my sessions that I experience multiple ejaculation,…

QUESTION: I’m healthy, in my 50s, and a mindful masturbator, so I don’t use porn a lot. But sometimes my erection doesn’t get very hard, even on cam with a hot bate bud. Not too…

QUESTION: Do sperm travel up your “vas deferens” when you edge, or only when you ejaculate? RESPONSE:  Thanks for asking, as it is quite a common misconception among men that sperm cells, and possibly even…

I’m sure it is common to most office situations with male workers. It is certainly not wrong morally!   QUESTION: Since returning to the office after restrictions have been eased, I’ve been hearing guys masturbate…

I love self-pleasuring but also into cages. Can you unite being a bator and being caged? QUESTION: I always had problems with my masculinity below my waist. I wanted to shut myself up with a…

Breathe slowly and deeply, as tools in your kit of masturbation skills and tactics. QUESTION: You often talk about deep breathing and the bate. I mean, I know breathing keeps us alive, right? But can…

He still doesn’t know I watched that… but how can I tell him? Do I dare ask if he’ll let me join? QUESTION: I’ve got several roomies. One I have a special crush on. I…

To protect and increase sensation QUESTION: I’m a man in my seventies and I’ve always masturbated a lot. But often I’ve had a raw spot on my penis, even painful, and sometimes on my balls….