Ask Dr. Bate: Masturbating Longer
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| Posted on: | July 07, 2016 |
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Masturbating Longer!
Question:
So what kind of question should I ask?
What about, how can I last longer while bating my friendly cock?
Dr. Bate’s Answer:
Your question is an important one because I spend a considerable amount of time helping guys discover and explore masturbation not only as a genital specific activity/practice but as a full body experience. I encourage you to explore our blog where I’ve written a four-part series called Reclaiming Masturbation.
But for the sake of immediacy let me share three abbreviated points to get you started.
- Slow down – Remember that in order to get the most out of your masturbation practice and learn to edge it’s important to slow down. Take your time, there is no rush. Spend time with your body, your penis, and exploring your pleasure.
- Breathe – Watch your breath and learn how to breathe deeply into your belly and lungs. We often forget to breathe deeply when we are in the midst of our sexual pleasure. Remember that breath is a friend and primary vehicle for the movement of erotic energy through the ENTIRE body and not just centered on your cock and balls.
- Move – Get up and move! Our physical habit during masturbation is to either sit in a chair or lie on a bed. Our body tends to get locked in a position for the entire duration from beginning to ejaculation. We often forget to breathe deeply and we forget to move. Movement, coupled with your breath, provides an opportunity to move your erotic energy throughout your body rather than concentrating it solely on your groin (which, incidentally, can promote a quicker climax). Stand up and move your hips, squat, do some stretching, etc. And don’t forget to breathe.
Take a look at the four-part series and see what you can do exploring your prolonged pleasure. Let us know how it goes!
Take your time,
Garland
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Masturbation: Age and Frequency Question:
I love to masturbate, I’m 64, and do so 4 times daily. I enjoy it all, is it too much for my age?
Thank You,
Rusty
Dr. Bate’s Answer:
Hello, Rusty. Thank you for sharing your enthusiasm for masturbation as a 64-year-old! I see your zest for masturbation as a great thing. So, physically, as far as your question, no, I do not think that it is too much at your age. People’s sex drives and desires ebb and flow throughout the trajectory of their lives. It seems as though you are in a high season. Masturbation is also stimulating to your circulation and thus, is much like exercise. Along the lines of medical benefits, regular ejaculation helps keep the prostate healthy and can prevent prostate cancer.
So enjoy your masturbatory high tide “at your age” or any age.
In Bating,
Toby
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Garland Jarmon heralds from 7 years as an HIV/AIDS educator and sexual health counselor for individuals and couples. Having a Masters in Social Work and now as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, he seeks to help all those in the LGBTQIA, straight, and Bator community live a more wholesome and embodied life, full of mindfulness and conscious exploration.
Toby de Luca comes from a background in Education and Massage Therapy. With a Masters in Teaching and also as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, he to assist folks in facilitating stronger, healthier relationships with their own bodies and their relationships with others.
Together they co-own their own Sex and Erotic Coaching business — Spiritual Eros (www.SpiritualEros.com). They desire to bring to the BateWorld Community an opportunity to have an open and honest discussion about issues that many of us face. They believe that everything is an experiment and that the only failed experiment is one you don’t collect the data from. They also understand that because their answers may not fit every lived experience, they welcome community members to offer their own experiences, challenges, and triumphs. They are proponents that healthy community creates healthier lives…and healthy lives, healthier communities!
Garland and Toby are Sexologists and as such are NOT medical doctors or therapists. The opinions, suggestions, and advice given are not meant to be in lieu of your primary care physician’s medical advice. If you are concerned about a medical condition or have a medical emergency, PLEASE contact your doctor, urgent care, or emergency room!
Brothers, we encourage you to exercise your best and highest wisdom and intuition!
If you’d like to submit questions, please email them to [email protected].
Masturbating Longer!
Question:
So what kind of question should I ask?
What about, how can I last longer while bating my friendly cock?
Dr. Bate’s Answer:
Your question is an important one because I spend a considerable amount of time helping guys discover and explore masturbation not only as a genital specific activity/practice but as a full body experience. I encourage you to explore our blog where I’ve written a four-part series called Reclaiming Masturbation.
But for the sake of immediacy let me share three abbreviated points to get you started.
- Slow down – Remember that in order to get the most out of your masturbation practice and learn to edge it’s important to slow down. Take your time, there is no rush. Spend time with your body, your penis, and exploring your pleasure.
- Breathe – Watch your breath and learn how to breathe deeply into your belly and lungs. We often forget to breathe deeply when we are in the midst of our sexual pleasure. Remember that breath is a friend and primary vehicle for the movement of erotic energy through the ENTIRE body and not just centered on your cock and balls.
- Move – Get up and move! Our physical habit during masturbation is to either sit in a chair or lie on a bed. Our body tends to get locked in a position for the entire duration from beginning to ejaculation. We often forget to breathe deeply and we forget to move. Movement, coupled with your breath, provides an opportunity to move your erotic energy throughout your body rather than concentrating it solely on your groin (which, incidentally, can promote a quicker climax). Stand up and move your hips, squat, do some stretching, etc. And don’t forget to breathe.
Take a look at the four-part series and see what you can do exploring your prolonged pleasure. Let us know how it goes!
Take your time,
Garland
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Masturbation: Age and Frequency Question:
I love to masturbate, I’m 64, and do so 4 times daily. I enjoy it all, is it too much for my age?
Thank You,
Rusty
Dr. Bate’s Answer:
Hello, Rusty. Thank you for sharing your enthusiasm for masturbation as a 64-year-old! I see your zest for masturbation as a great thing. So, physically, as far as your question, no, I do not think that it is too much at your age. People’s sex drives and desires ebb and flow throughout the trajectory of their lives. It seems as though you are in a high season. Masturbation is also stimulating to your circulation and thus, is much like exercise. Along the lines of medical benefits, regular ejaculation helps keep the prostate healthy and can prevent prostate cancer.
So enjoy your masturbatory high tide “at your age” or any age.
In Bating,
Toby
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Garland Jarmon heralds from 7 years as an HIV/AIDS educator and sexual health counselor for individuals and couples. Having a Masters in Social Work and now as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, he seeks to help all those in the LGBTQIA, straight, and Bator community live a more wholesome and embodied life, full of mindfulness and conscious exploration.
Toby de Luca comes from a background in Education and Massage Therapy. With a Masters in Teaching and also as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, he to assist folks in facilitating stronger, healthier relationships with their own bodies and their relationships with others.
Together they co-own their own Sex and Erotic Coaching business — Spiritual Eros (www.SpiritualEros.com). They desire to bring to the BateWorld Community an opportunity to have an open and honest discussion about issues that many of us face. They believe that everything is an experiment and that the only failed experiment is one you don’t collect the data from. They also understand that because their answers may not fit every lived experience, they welcome community members to offer their own experiences, challenges, and triumphs. They are proponents that healthy community creates healthier lives…and healthy lives, healthier communities!
Garland and Toby are Sexologists and as such are NOT medical doctors or therapists. The opinions, suggestions, and advice given are not meant to be in lieu of your primary care physician’s medical advice. If you are concerned about a medical condition or have a medical emergency, PLEASE contact your doctor, urgent care, or emergency room!
Brothers, we encourage you to exercise your best and highest wisdom and intuition!
If you’d like to submit questions, please email them to [email protected].
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I do not think that you can masturbate too much. Three to five masturbation or more per day are still completely normal. The number of masturbation is determined by the daily form of humor and inspiration. I even now operate masturbation for 62 years for decades at this level. Without ever having health or other problems. For me, masturbation is as normal as eating and catch your breath. Also, I am working for many years with the phenomenon of masturbation. That is, I read everything that is available to me on the subject. In relevant forums on the internet and in medical treatises and books. And I’ve learned that other masturbators operate the frequency of masturbation at a similar level. And so have no health or other problems. On the contrary, there are many indications that masturbation is good for prostate health.