Ask Dr. Bate – BATING HANGUPS
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| Posted on: | July 02, 2014 |
| Categorized: | Ask Dr. Bate |
Why do most people have bating hangups?
I mean, isn’t it common knowledge that all guys love to jack off? So why are guys uptight about it? I’m gay, but would love to enjoy jacking beside a buddy, gay or straight. How can I let someone know it’s okay to enjoy the experience?
You’d think we’d be okay with it in 2013, yeah? But think of the messages many of us around the world grow up with related to anything sexual: religious messages, political messages, social messages, etc. It turns out, some people are fine with sexuality, and some people have hangups.
Some people are fine with one or two specific sexual behaviors, but totally hung up about other ones. I find it intensely satisfying to be able to bond with other men through our penises, and the more I do, the less interested I am about identifying with those 19th and 20th Century terms of gay/straight/bi, and the purported “communities” that have sprung up around them. Anyway, stay tuned for a documentary about masturbation that covers just that–why the big deal?!
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Dr. Bate is the pseudonym for a licensed and practicing psychotherapist and certified sex therapist.
DISCLAIMER: This advice is neither intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical consultation. It is provided for educational and entertainment purposes only.
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Why do most people have bating hangups?
I mean, isn’t it common knowledge that all guys love to jack off? So why are guys uptight about it? I’m gay, but would love to enjoy jacking beside a buddy, gay or straight. How can I let someone know it’s okay to enjoy the experience?
You’d think we’d be okay with it in 2013, yeah? But think of the messages many of us around the world grow up with related to anything sexual: religious messages, political messages, social messages, etc. It turns out, some people are fine with sexuality, and some people have hangups.
Some people are fine with one or two specific sexual behaviors, but totally hung up about other ones. I find it intensely satisfying to be able to bond with other men through our penises, and the more I do, the less interested I am about identifying with those 19th and 20th Century terms of gay/straight/bi, and the purported “communities” that have sprung up around them. Anyway, stay tuned for a documentary about masturbation that covers just that–why the big deal?!
Check out StickyTheMovie and Bate On!
Dr. Bate is the pseudonym for a licensed and practicing psychotherapist and certified sex therapist.
DISCLAIMER: This advice is neither intended nor implied to be a substitute for professional medical consultation. It is provided for educational and entertainment purposes only.
Similar Articles of Interest: Got Hangups?
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