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Ask Dr. Bate: A Transition

Endings and Beginnings

All of us at BateWorld and The BatorBlog want to thank Garland and Toby for their insightful and thought-provoking articles for The BatorBlog's Dr. Bate column. After two years of monthly articles, they'll now be moving on to pursue their calling in private practice and group workshops, and we all want to wish them the best.
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Ask Dr. Bate: Male Bonding and Fantasy

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How do we define "male bonding" and what does it involve? Devotion? Deep friendship? Understanding each other? Contact? How close two men can come together and where is the line between friendship and sex? Can masturbation be considered male bonding?
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Ask Dr. Bate: Cheating and Sperm Count

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"I'm a happily partnered Bator who is fortunate enough to get plenty of alone time weekly to hone my skill. But I would love to find a Bate Bro to share things with since my partner likes to keep things more traditional... 1. How do I find a bro that is just into bating together and nothing else; and 2. Would it be cheating if there is absolutely no mutual masturbation or deep emotions involved?!"
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Ask Dr. Bate: Blue Balls and Messy Lube

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Recently, however, I feel like my nuts are so fucking sore after just a few hours of masturbation instead of the all-night/all-day bate sessions of my youth (I’m nearing 40). I don’t know if I need to relieve my blue balls sooner or if there’s some other remedy/trick you recommend. Or even if this could signal a serious health issue. What can I do? What do you recommend?
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Ask Dr. Bate: Lopsided Bator And Inner Exhibitionist

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I've been jerking off since I was 11. I am now 22. I mostly jerk off with my right hand, and I've noticed that the right side of my chest is bigger than my left. I can't help it! It feels better with my right hand. Is there any way to get the left side to look like my right without jerking off with my left hand? Or do I have to wank with my left hand for 11 years for my chest to look even?
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Ask Dr. Bate: Masturbating Longer

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How can I last longer while bating my friendly cock?

Your question is an important one because I spend a considerable amount of time helping guys discover and explore masturbation not only as a genital specific activity/practice but as a full body experience.