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This is a story of magic and self-love discoveries from Bateworld member Beastlybator. Similar to solosexual authors M. B. Timothy (Saboteur) and Jason Armstrong (Wildhorse100), Beastlybator shares his personal journey to finding himself, the discovery…

A happy solosexual can develop strong, good self-esteem. QUESTION: I’m 23 now, but still have an erection a lot of the time, like in my late teens. Truth is, I’ve had plenty of sex with…

We here at The Bator Blog posted a poll on BateWorld asking “When did you discover you were a bator?” The responses poured in and we were amazed at how many of you wrote contemplatively…

QUESTION: My best buddy is kind of versatile like me, only he also likes standard gay porn a lot. All I really want to see is guys JO, not even other gay sex. I like…

The couple who masturbates together stays together   One of the big additional “benefits” of masturbation, especially for hetero married couples, is that it helps bridge the often difficult period of menopause.  This, of course,…

In another revealing post M.B. Timothy ( Saboteur on BateWorld ) talks about overcoming masturbation shame. He also explains how we can overcome it. This is an excerpt from Timothy’s book CEDAR: An Ode To…

“The idea that masturbation is anti-social […] is just part of outdated anti-masturbation campaigns that linger from the last few centuries.” QUESTION: I do it with bate buds and in groups! To me, bating is…

The tables have turned in this exclusive interview with BateWorld members wildhorse100 and StrokingtheSoul Not too long ago, writer Jason Armstrong (wildhorse100 on BateWorld) was interviewed by writer Anthony Ragonese (StrokingtheSoul on BateWorld). You can…

Jason Armstrong (Wildhorse100) talks all things Solosexual with fellow Bateworld member StrokingtheSoul (Anthony) Jason Armstrong is the author of three books: Solosexual: Portrait of a Masturbator (2016), Getting Off: The Unlikely Chronicles of a Solosexual…

“Honey… I’m a masturbator.” A relationship is important. It demands your respect. Futures together are worth it. Pasts spent together are to be cherished. Your relationship to yourself is just as sacred though. Your solosexuality…

What if you don’t identify as a “top” or a “bottom” or even “vers”? In gay male vernacular, the term “top” refers to the one who penetrates, and “bottom” is the one who receives. In…

Male masturbation is no longer automatically portrayed as a shameful, hidden act. As I perused my newTumbl feed recently, I was struck by how much the representation of male masturbation in pornography has changed in…