“Mindfulness is about nothing more than intense alertness, being really present in the moment where you are and in your own body. Keeping focus on yourself.” QUESTION: You sometimes say that using a lot of…
The same things don’t work for every man, and though the basic essence of what male masturbation is about is something truly universal to most men, everyone is also individual. QUESTION: Now, what I…
Many men in today’s world (sometimes myself included) enjoy masturbating to porn on the Internet, which can prove highly arousing and provide great bate fuel. In my opinion, porn is sacred, as it shares an extremely important part of our lives that most mainstream cultures still frown upon and often seek to keep hidden.
To pursue excellence as a male masturbator, you not only want to arouse your entire body but also to invite every part of your genital and pelvic region to participate in generating those ecstatic waves that flood your entire being with bliss. Plus, there’s nothing wrong with a lot of focus on the penis, as that’s where so much sensation comes from. Still, your entire body can be viewed as an erogenous zone.
Your masturbation practice, no matter how great, can intensify simply by getting creative: try new masturbation techniques, deliberately shift your focus, seek out the undiscovered country of the Masturbatory Frontier! We all get into habits, and habits are not entirely bad, still in the realm of excellence among male masturbators, it’s always good to periodically break the mold.
You can stroke yourself high-and-higher indefinitely, which can go far beyond what guys sometimes call edging, allowing the intense penis pleasure to radiate through your entire body and light up every one of your trillions of cells. When you’ve got a great bate going, get your body moving: walk around and keep masturbating, even do knee-bends and keep masturbating. Remind yourself to take a DEEP belly breath while you masturbate! It’s such a sweet, sweet ride, both endless and limitless!
Male masturbation is always a good thing, and it is the most common sexual experience on the planet. The only possible dark side comes if a masturbator reinforces guilt or shame in the process; the best way to get rid of those factors is to burn them out with extreme, high-quality sessions of physical self-love. The surrender to pure penile pleasure can help to make you a better man.
Masturbating is actually something like one of those humungous multi-stage rockets that they send up from Cape Canaveral, where you see this gigantic upright thing standing ready and waiting for ignition, then lift-off into Bater Bliss orbit. Yes, there are plenty of specifics that you can actually try that may help your lift-off into the Goon Zone where gravity can’t get you any longer, and you’re in erotic free-fall!
Neuroplasticity makes it possible to weave new nerve pathways into your nervous system and brain. QUESTION: You sometimes use long, fancy words, Bruce! Can you tell me in simple, clear terms what “neuroplasticity” really means?…
“The experimenting that I was conducting […] was quite interesting and fun as hell!” My Solo-sexuality, Edibles, and The Art of Gooning Formerly, Jaxz Masturbando (Jaxz) now under the title Statik Vibez. I have taken…
As human lifespans have increased, more and more men share many of these concerns while living longer. QUESTION: Now that I’m over 80 years old, though I still think about sex a lot, my erections…
QUESTION: I am a physician, an M.D. in my 30s who has long been a fan of your teachings. I work in an Emergency Room, which is very stressful and the hours long. I’m single,…
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