We are taught that as men we build to an orgasm, ejaculate and then require a refractory period before we can reach those heights again. Our erections go soft and though we may still remain aroused, we are physically incapable of shooting sperm or making our penises spasm with pleasure unless we wait. For some that wait time is minutes, for others it’s hours or even days. Though we’ve come to accept this as a normal part of the male sexual response, I know I speak for all of us when I say that however long that wait time is, it’s too long!
Masturbating is actually something like one of those humungous multi-stage rockets that they send up from Cape Canaveral, where you see this gigantic upright thing standing ready and waiting for ignition, then lift-off into Bater Bliss orbit. Yes, there are plenty of specifics that you can actually try that may help your lift-off into the Goon Zone where gravity can’t get you any longer, and you’re in erotic free-fall!
With an introduction by the inimitable Joseph Kramer, the book is written by Bruce P. Grether, the originator of the phrase “Mindful Masturbation.” He had me at the opening of his preface, in which he writes This book is about only one thing: your relationship with your penis. His book speaks to the experience so many bators have of connecting to something divine during bate, connecting to all things, all times, all men who have ever masturbated, past, present and future.
Is there some exercise we can do to strengthen a Bator’s wrist?
I just caught the masturbation episode of Seinfeld on TV tonight. The Contest is one of the brightest moments in a comedy series that was consistently brilliant, a loopy look at the details of ordinary experience and the pratfalls of neurotic Manhattan ennui. Larry David won an Emmy for writing The Contest, and it’s listed as #1 on TV Guide’s list of 100 Greatest Episodes of All-Time.
The 2257 law held adult content providers responsible for an inordinately burdensome record keeping process. Its purpose to protect minors from sexual imagery is not something anyone in the adult industry had a problem with. It’s what the paperwork requirements do to free adult speech that’s the issue.