Everybody and my grandpa masturbates QUESTION: Everybody and my grandpa masturbates. I’m 20 and still live with my folks, but they won’t talk about sex at all. There is nothing improper about what I’m about…
Sublime Slime? Or Stupid Risk? QUESTION: My bate buddy always eats his cum, and at first, I always thought that was way gross. But he persuaded me to try it, and I did, and now…
QUESTION: Growing up, I always heard that jerking-off was the same as wasting time. Masturbators were losers. Now, I know better. Bators are winners and I love it, but that shadow of doubt is still…
QUESTION: My buddy likes me to watch him jerk off, but he won’t let me do it at the same time except with a hand inside my shorts. Doesn’t want to see my penis so…
“There are all sorts of subtle nuances to masturbatory pleasure, which involve pressure, tempos, particular strokes, the right touch, even fetishes and other aspects of arousal.” QUESTION: I’m in University and my roomies all love…
QUESTION: My best buddy is kind of versatile like me, only he also likes standard gay porn a lot. All I really want to see is guys JO, not even other gay sex. I like…
“Edging Skills Are Not Easy For Me!” QUESTION: I’m working hard and practicing to become better at edging, even to masturbate mindfully. But I still ejaculate too easily, too soon, mainly because it just feels…
In another revealing post M.B. Timothy ( Saboteur on BateWorld ) talks about overcoming masturbation shame. He also explains how we can overcome it. This is an excerpt from Timothy’s book CEDAR: An Ode To…
I love self-pleasuring but also into cages. Can you unite being a bator and being caged? QUESTION: I always had problems with my masculinity below my waist. I wanted to shut myself up with a…
Update 5.17.22 – This study is now closed! Thanks to SASSY for the research and for BateWorld and its members for taking part. SASSY: Study on Aging and Sexual Satisfaction among Gay Men Michigan State…
“…And I can’t do it at home unless he’s gone out. I hate sneaking around, but I do love to bate! Help!” QUESTION: After many years single and lonely, I’ve got a great partner and…
Masturbation, Vivid Dreams, and a Novel Series QUESTION: In one blog, Bruce, you talked about reading and about characters in books that masturbate. Can you tell a little about the ones in your own books…
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